toogood4u7 Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 Ok I could really use some help. I literally just saw my ex and his new gf out 20 mins ago. There are so many emotions running through me right now I dont know what to do. I'm upset, angry and hurt. Part of me wants to call him and tell him what a jerk he is but I wont. This is the same guy who only a month ago was telling me how much he loved me and wanted to marry me. This girl he is dating is older shes 30 hes 26 she lives right next to my friend and his car is at her house everynight Im guessing he sleeps there. Like I just dont know how he can go from being at my house everynight for a year to now being at her's after only knowing this girl a month(the reason I know this is bc shes one of my friends exes and they still talk). I'm just so upset that he could just forget about me like I never meant anything to him at all. He acts like we are strangers now. He broke up with me in May but we still continued to talk till he met her. I feel like he slowly got over me until he met someone and just left me here without any care of how it might make me feel. It almost feels like we broke up again for me bc the whole time we were talking after the break up he made it seem like we were going to get back together. I guess the reason this hurts so much is that I never really got any closer from him and I just cant believe how someone who loved you so much could be so mean to you like that. Sorry I just need vent.
CherishG Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 I'm really sorry you had to see that, I just can't even imagine being in ur situation and seeing that for myself with my ex. I literally would just die if I saw the new "woman" in his life. It's already heartbreaking acknowledging that I was already replaced, and everything we ever felt or shared together was a forgotten memory, erased forever. Hang in there, but maybe now it's time to really consider letting go for good. I hate to say it, because I myself am dealing with a similiar situation (going on 2wks since the break up), but he was just using you to hold on til something else came along. You deserve better than this. We all do. I'll say an xtra prayer 4 u 2nite sorry ur going thru this...
JooLee Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 i understand how you feel. going through the exact same thing. im finding a way to just let it go myself.. to detox him (and her) out of my system. if you ever do happen to find a way.. please let me know.
Green Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 Good job holding back you shouldn't start yelling things when your all emotional time should heal your wounds, and if I happen to be in a town near you so will my dck
happyorb Posted September 13, 2008 Posted September 13, 2008 I feel like he slowly got over me until he met someone and just left me here without any care of how it might make me feel. Yes, that's what happens when a relationship ends. The other person stops caring about you and puts their care into someone new. It's good advice for you now, too. Find someone worthy of your affection. He's not it.
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