Melrapuo Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 My ex broke up with me at the beginning of summer. Gave me the run around, I finally told her to stop talking to me, wished her the best of luck a few weeks ago and said goodbye. As if moving on wasn't hard enough, today I just found out my grandmother (95) has colon cancer. I dunno, I'm just kinda bewildered right now. I'm wishing something good will actually happen this summer, and instead its been nothing but crap. I dunno, I need to vent. Today is my grams birthday, and this is not the news we wanted to hear. It's gonna get better at some point, right? I just can't believe how unbelievably ****ty lift is turning out to be right now.
Crazy.S Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 sorry to hear that man. well once your at the bottom there is no where to go but up. things will get better. hang in there. best wishes
BCCA Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 I dont know if this will make you feel any better, but here is my summer in a nutshell: My best friend from 3rd grade on committed suicide (18 years we knew each other), my girlfriend of 4.5 years left me, and my grandmother died of a heart attack. This is all within a couple of months. It's times like this I'm glad I dont live near a bridge or own a gun, but you have to scrape up whatever you have left and move on with life. Sitting at home and wondering why life has dealt you a s**tty hand will get you nowhere. There are days I wonder why I even bother, but then I realize that there are people who made it through even worse situations, and I'm lucky to be alive. The only person I can control is myself, so I just try to think about what I can do to make myself happier and better off. I wont lie, its easy to have a pitty party for myself. Most people would agree I have a reason to mope, but I've done plenty of that and it got me nowhere. All I do now is try and make the most of whatever I get, which admittedly isnt a whole lot sometimes. It's hard, but you have to get through it.
Green Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 I don't know if this will make you feel any better but I lost my mind 20 minutes ago and have been msging random girls with the browse feature of myspace saying all kinds of things! and my summer sucks every year..... I hated camp as a kid.... And as an adult I hate the warm weather and the way my balls stick to the side of my leg
Author Melrapuo Posted September 12, 2008 Author Posted September 12, 2008 Lol...thanks KMT, that made me laugh. Sorry to hear about everyone else's summer too. At this point I'm more worried about my mom than anything else. She's been having a bad week at work, and this news didn't help. Feeling a little better today. Thanks everyone. : )
Author Melrapuo Posted September 19, 2008 Author Posted September 19, 2008 My mom was fired from her job today. She's probably gonna be a wreck for the next few months. Amazes me how life tends to fall apart sometimes.
badnewsbeers Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Well, as long as we're all having a pity party... lol -Girlfriend of 2 years, relationship ended mid July. -Dislocated my shoulder for the 3rd time in 6 months, all sports related (hockey, basketball, now beach volleyball) -Diagnosed with cancer -Dealing with depression -Dealing with a final semester of engineering, during which I have so much work to do that I pretty well work 12 hour days. So... yeah, life isn't so peachy for me either. I guess the way to look at it is that it can only go up from here eh?
CherishG Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 sorry to hear what your summer's been so far. my prayers will go out for you and ur family. It's true I guess what they say, "When it pours, it really pours down hard", so I guess you gotta stay strong and hold on that there will be better days ahead. Take care of yourself first.
Author Melrapuo Posted September 19, 2008 Author Posted September 19, 2008 Hey badnewsbears, sorry to hear about whats been happening with you. I guess I'm not the only one haha. I only come here to vent more than have a pity party, but yea it does seem like everything bad comes tumbling down all at once. Seems like the only way to recover is to learn how to dig ourselves out and stand up on our two feet. Exercise definitely helps relieve some stress. At this rate I'm gonna have a six pack in no time lol
CandyGirlXO Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Yes my summer sucks too, and I can't stop thinking about summers that I have had that were so much fun Makes me wonder if I will ever have those summers again.
EmperorR Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 eh just 3 weeks ago i had everything, now its like i have nothing, how quickly life changes
porter218 Posted September 20, 2008 Posted September 20, 2008 I don't know if this will make you feel any better but I lost my mind 20 minutes ago and have been msging random girls with the browse feature of myspace saying all kinds of things! and my summer sucks every year..... I hated camp as a kid.... And as an adult I hate the warm weather and the way my balls stick to the side of my leg LOL...Wear boxer briefs in the summer...that's my Hs solution. OP, just set your mind to making next summer awesome. My summer kinda sucked too. I planned on getting pregnant so I took all my vacations for the year in the early spring. Well I ended up pregnant earlier then I expected so I had to go through 2 months of vacations without a drop of alcohol...Picture a vaca in the Islands with no rum punch:(. Then I had to go all summer with no vacation time left and over heated and pregnant. That's OK though next summer I am going to act a d@mn fool.
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