critter909 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Hi everyone! Haven't been on for a while, was trying to avoid things that trigger the "someone is chewing on my intestines" feeling. But here I am again.... Ran into him yesterday with his new girl at a pet store. This is two weeks after he called me giving me hope of reconciliation. He tried to hide from me behind a plant (not kidding!) but I went up to him and told him he needed to come to the house that night. He still has things at my place and arrangements to make, I also wanted to finally close it with him, confront him, yell at him whatever, just wanted it to be over. Of course he weaseled out of it. After making arrangements for things via text message (super lame!) I sent him a message insisting we needed to talk, I needed to finish things with him. He said "maybe in a few days have a lot going on blah blah." I was very upset, but calmed down after a couple of hours. I sent him another text saying that I didn't need to talk to him. I need to accept the fact that it is over, will try to be happy for him, please come get your things. The message was worded in such a way that no reply was needed. However, an hour later I started getting messages from him. I will type them word for word here. Would love some input. Oh, and I think he was drunk when he wrote these. Message 1: I wish the best for you, another life we could have had the world. The thing is I really f'd us up you should not think anything good of the destruction I fed you. You are a great person I wish I could have treated you right from the start. Message 2: But we already burned all the forest Message 3: And thank you for going through that with me you will always have a place in my heart Message 4: I love you but we just dont mix, please take care of yourself. It was awesome!! I will never forget you. Message 5: Please tell me you are ok. I don't even know what advice I want. Been NC with him but he always reaches out in some way. I guess I would just want to know what someone thinks of this.
seminoles84 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 I hate text messaging.. it ruined any chance I had and made me hate her even more. My advice.. stop texting. It makes things worse. Best of luck to you, I know you must be feeling down right now. We all have been through it. I think you know what is best here, and that's no contact. Seems like he's placing you on the back burner. As for his things. Maybe give them to a mutual friend? I held on to my ex's things because I used them to see her. It was a horrible idea because it only made it things worse when I ran out of things to return! bah!
Author critter909 Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 thanks for the reply. It seems like it feels better once you put something out there. Can't drop stuff off unfortunately- we're talking about a car that doesn't run. But definetly will not contact him, even to get the stuff, let it rot.
0hpenelope Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Ok, this series of text messages? Message 1: I wish the best for you, another life we could have had the world. The thing is I really f'd us up you should not think anything good of the destruction I fed you. You are a great person I wish I could have treated you right from the start. Message 2: But we already burned all the forest Message 3: And thank you for going through that with me you will always have a place in my heart Message 4: I love you but we just dont mix, please take care of yourself. It was awesome!! I will never forget you. Message 5: Please tell me you are ok. Lame! That's all there is to it. "I love you but we just dont mix... It was awesome!!" ... I have no words. No words at all. And for him to hide behind the plant? Grow a pair, man! Lame lame lame! I can't say repeat it enough times, it's just so lame! Hopefully you'll see that perhaps he's keeping in touch with you to alleviate the guilt. If he's the one who broke up with you, okay... fine. He did it because he was looking out for himself and unfortunately, part of it was hurting you. But you're still alive - him leaving didn't leave you for dead, physically. What a guy... What a guy.
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