RealisticOptimist Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 So my whirlwind man has moved in after 1.5 months of dating (Me-31/He-32). We are coming up on our 2 month 'anniversary'. Things are great so far! We are moving in to our 'roles' in the house. It's very cute. He is very thoughtful and notices everything I do for him. He even offers to buy me my expensive shampoo (girls you know how sweet that is). One thing I have noticed. Since moving in he has applied for a promotion at work and started getting all his finances back in order- apparently he hasn't cared about them for a couple of years. Not that he is in a bad way at all, he is just trying to be more on top of things. I feel like he is growing up right in front of my eyes! What is going on here? From a male perspective what would make a guy suddenly care about those grown up type things?
Author RealisticOptimist Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 Anyone have some thoughts on this?
reservoirdog1 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Well, whatever it is that's making him clean up his act, the fact that he's cleaning it up without you nagging him into it can only be regarded as a good thing. So, my advice... stop overanalyzing and be happy about it. Why turn something into a "problem" that isn't one?
Author RealisticOptimist Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 no problem here, just curious what it is that makes a guy switch like that. I think it's great! But I have never seen it before in a guy. I'm interested in the psychology behind it. I would never nag him. I made that mistake in a past relationship and learned my lesson. He is his own man responsible for his own life.
mark982 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 sounds to me like he's really into you, and just tring to make sure a future life is in better order. good luck.
Author RealisticOptimist Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 Thanks Mark. Anyone else have some insight?
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