Mending1985 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Well when I like a guy I'll talk to him a lot more than normal, text/email etc. Be very happy whenever I'm around them. And after gauging a response to that, if I thought they were interested as well, I'd start to drop hints about having no plans on the weekend or movies I'd like to see etc.
Green Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 if you stick a finger in them and it comes out wet great sign! basicaly just assume a woman likes you, you'll seem more confident that way
Mending1985 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 if you stick a finger in them and it comes out wet great sign! Oh KMT lol
CaliGuy Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 What are the signs Lots of eye contact. She wants to talk to you often. She smiles often when she talks to you. She lightly touches your arm when she talks to you. She jokes with you and teases and flirts with you. You want to let her know you like her? Do the same. Make her laugh, smile at her a lot, make good eye contact, tease her a little (in a good way) and be flirty.
audrey_1 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Lots of eye contact. She wants to talk to you often. She smiles often when she talks to you. She lightly touches your arm when she talks to you. She jokes with you and teases and flirts with you. You want to let her know you like her? Do the same. Make her laugh, smile at her a lot, make good eye contact, tease her a little (in a good way) and be flirty. I just read your "No Contact Guide." Awesome post! This is good advice no how to show interest, but the guy who did these things with me that I was interested in just wanted to be friends, so it is not always the best way to judge.
carhill Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Just be forewarned that ego feeders project similar actions/responses, so one must take time to decide whether the signals are accurate or not. I personally think, for a man, getting into her personal space and being more aggressive sexually (not meaning groping her but approaching in more sexual way) calls the ego feeder's bluff, while a woman who is sincerely attracted will be responsive. The trick is setting the boundary and keeping it constantly moving, so she isn't sure where exactly the man is coming from. FWIW, a goodly amount of my platonic female friends treated me the way Cali describes. It was just their affection style. How do I know this? Because I mis-read their signals
CaliGuy Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 I just read your "No Contact Guide." Awesome post! This is good advice no how to show interest, but the guy who did these things with me that I was interested in just wanted to be friends, so it is not always the best way to judge. Thanks. Yes, it has to be reciprocal or no matter how much you flirt, it won't matter.
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