T.O.gurl Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 So this guy I was seeing most of last year and still talk to all the time went backpacking through Europe over the summer. While he was gone we still talked at least once a week but basically over the computer as texting and calling were too expensive for either one of us. He is going home(Canada)tomorrow and I had wanted to pay him and another guy friend(strictly friend)a visit sometime next month. I've been discussing this with him for the last week and a half and at first he was all for the idea, telling me I was more than welcome to stay at his place and that he thought it was "awesome" I was possibly coming up. I had told him that I however was most likely going to stay at my other friend's place 3 hrs away and his response was "Well,but, that's in Toronto"?...and I told him that it was but since he didn't know his schedule next month yet and I needed to book a plane ticket it might be easier to just go ahead and stay at this other friends. He said that was "cool" and for me to let him know "details" so that we could meet up. However today he sends me a message telling me that he while he'd "love" for me to come he isn't even home yet and doesn't really know what's going on at his home yet or what his schedule will be like once he gets there. He also tells me that "truthfully told" he is afraid of getting attached again for the few days that I'm there only to have me leave and not knowing when we'd see eachother again.(btw I live in Georgia)My question is is this bs or is he being honest?
Hoosier09 Posted September 12, 2008 Posted September 12, 2008 You seriously think he's comfortable with you staying with another guy??? That would make me very upset. Talk it out with him. I think he's unhappy with that situation.
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