Gravedigger Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 ... as sung so beautifully by Tom Petty, but I think the lyrics are really true. I am trying to hook up with this wonderful girl. She lives a couple of hours away and has two kids, so she is pretty busy. I have been trying to get a date with her for the last month and a half now, but nothing ever happens. Now, we don't call eachother, just text messages so far. And she usually never sends me any messages unless I contact her first. I make contact with her every 2-3 days, but she keeps postponing the decision of when to meet. She is a bit older than me (I am 30 and she is about 36), so she probably thinks I am just another guy who is just in it for the sex (which was great by the way, but I am into her more than just that), but how long should I keep waiting for this. I really like her, she is very very sweet, but I think I am into her 10 times as much as she is into me. How can I chatch her attention without appearing as a needy wuss-bag? Should i just go with NC and see what happens or give her some kind of ultimatum? I don't think I can wait like this much longer.
SoundTribe Posted October 7, 2008 Posted October 7, 2008 you should stop contacting her so frequently. That is what is making you appear needy.
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