dadawg Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 Didn't think I was gonna post again, but here we go. I was with my ex for close to six yrs, and I did the dumping after she started playing mind games and started taking me for granted. She was never there for me nomatter how much I was there for her, and for her just the fact that "she was with me" was enough. She would ignore me for days or do something to push me away. Then, she would say I didn't call her and make me apologize. I said enough, and she tried really hard to get me back. No matter how strong a feeling I had for her, I said no because I knew she was no good. I felt really sorry she felt so weak and desperate to get me back, but I left coz I knew that was right for her and me. It just so happened that I visited back home, and I sort of saw all the places that my ex and I frequented. I thought about her...I mean a lot. I was terrified of running into her, but I hung out anyway. I know she is not right, and has never been right for me. I do have a great relationship right now that I would not trade for anything. I just feel weak for feeling this way. Why do I bother about my ex at all? She probably moved on long time ago. They should really make that machine from that "Eternal Sunshine movie" by Jim Carey.
Lishy Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 How long ago did you break up? You were very strong to walk away
CaliGuy Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 Good job man. You did the right thing. Hang on to what you have. What you had in the past is done and over with. It's normal to have the feelings you are having now, but keep in touch with the present. You've been blessed with a much better relationship. That is what is important for you to keep in mind. What cares what your ex is up to. She's old news!
nopainnogain Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 They should really make that machine from that "Eternal Sunshine movie" by Jim Carey. never seen the movie.Whats this machine all about:confused:
Author dadawg Posted September 10, 2008 Author Posted September 10, 2008 How long ago did you break up? You were very strong to walk away I think there's a fine line between strength and weakness. I was so weak when it came to her, but very sane, so I did what I did. This was close to a year ago. Thanks to Caliguy and ...Nopa...watch the movie...it's great. Don't want to give away the plot, but some sort of memory erasing is involved..
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