Flowerpower7 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 I'm looking for specific information from Shy-guys: When you like a girl how do you show her that you want more than friendship? Why is it that some shy guys show interest then back off then come back? What are some signs that I can look for of interest?
joshaz Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Erm... We don't Probably your best bet is if we look away quickly, or have trouble holding prolonged eye-contact. If we show interest and then back-off it's most surely because we don't think you could possibly be interested. Or have a boyfriend, or are otherwise unavailable... Yeah... It's a problem.
D-Jam Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 I'm looking for specific information from Shy-guys: When you like a girl how do you show her that you want more than friendship? Why is it that some shy guys show interest then back off then come back? What are some signs that I can look for of interest? I think if you're a girl and you like a guy, but he's being all shy...then just put it all on the line and make a move. Shy guys are generally afraid to make a move because they fear rejection. When a girl makes a move on them, then they know they're "in"...so they won't be as fearful anymore. I do tell many women though that if they're into the very masculine take charge and run the show kind of guy, shy guys generally won't be that. <--- former shy guy.
Author Flowerpower7 Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 I want my shy-guy, so I will make the first move!
refurb Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 I want my shy-guy, so I will make the first move! As a girl, you don't necessarily have to put it all on the line if you're interested in a guy, just show that you're interested and even the most shy guy will make an effort if he's interested. RF
Rooster_DAR Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 Yup, just show interest. Just randomly start conversation with him, and try to get him comfortable.
Author Flowerpower7 Posted September 10, 2008 Author Posted September 10, 2008 He use to be able to maintain eye contact with me and was never nervous (shaky hands and voice) around me. But lately within the last few weeks he is nervous and can't maintain eye contact for long. Its not as if he is ashamed looking down; its just looking away when we talk face to face. But I do catch him looking at me when I am not looking at him.
GoodOnPaper Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 /. . . But I do catch him looking at me when I am not looking at him. There's your sign of interest . . .
Author Flowerpower7 Posted September 10, 2008 Author Posted September 10, 2008 I would really like to think that it is interest on his part....I just want to know for sure. I browse profiles online but am not interested in anyone but my shy-guy. I see him online once in a while too...so just trying to figure things out.
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