bubbles5 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 I know my frnd frm past 4 yrs and we had fights almost abt everything , frm boys to frnds etc etc..Now she is away in scotland 4 her studies n we had fight online n we didnt talk like 4 months then all of sudden we started talkin as if nothing wrong happened between us. Anyways so some how I again started being frnds with her. She wants to 4get all past and says to act as if nothing happened and I am not like that I feel to open up things and solve all misunderstandings . Sometime she would tell she doesnt trust me n on other hand if I dont talk then she would tell that I am her best frnd . I dont get her if she doesnt trust me why she wants 2 be frnd. Anyways so I also thought to just forget all past and I started acting normal as if nothing happen , but now I am messaging her it seems she doesnt reply any of my messages , I seriously dont get her.If It seems now we hardly talk and I feel totally distant frm her . She talks to her other frnds , I guess she is back frm scotland but she has not told me not sure abt it though . Most of her frnds I guess knows she is back but she didnt tell me . Whatever I feel about her and what I dont like I open up but she keeps hiding things which I dont like why she is doing like this? For eg if I have any problem and if I talk 2 her then she tells me I keep complaining n whining abt my problems as if nobody has problem , and my way of thinking is I tell my problems only to those to whom I feel close and so I would tell her but she takes other way round. example 2 During her birthday I wished her in advance so she tells me that I have 4gotten her birthday I dont get it and then she tells b4 u lot of other ppl have wished me advance birthday. I mean what is she expecting?I wished her early to let her know that I havent 4gotten her birthday n she thinks totally other way round. This is just few example So people I have one doubt that is it that we both take things in different view and dont understand each other? Why is sometimes she would make me her highest priority n other times as if I exist no where in her life? What should I do to be able 2 act normal n make things simpler in our frndship.plz help..
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