JoeNewbie Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 What was your worst experience with an ego feeder? How do you recognize them moving forward?
girlygirl25 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 What was your worst experience with an ego feeder? How do you recognize them moving forward? I'm a little embarrased to be asking this question, but what is an ego feeder?
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 I'm a little embarrased to be asking this question, but what is an ego feeder? Sorry I think I used the wrong term. I meant a woman who is very flirtatious, very teasing - but nothing ever happens.
girlygirl25 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Sorry I think I used the wrong term. I meant a woman who is very flirtatious, very teasing - but nothing ever happens. Well, I am a female but I do know girls who act in this manner. A friend of mine (who has a boyfriend) is very flirty and teasing when she goes to the bar. She always has guys come up to her and she flirts with them, but when they ask for her number she says she is taken. The guys always look really pissed. I'm not sure how to avoid this type of thing (if I were a guy), but a clue could be a girl who is wearing VERY revealing clothing (like a top that doesn't "hold her in" or a really short skirt). Hope that helped.
katherinev87 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Sorry I think I used the wrong term. I meant a woman who is very flirtatious, very teasing - but nothing ever happens. So....by 'Ego Feeder' you mean 'Cock Tease', yes?
ed-205 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 I've never had a problem with "teasers", but then I do not flirt well, which makes me a bad target for them. I have had a few Female Friends who like to do this, and to them it's all a game, kind of like "Catch and Release" fishing. Who knows why they do it. Maybe they want to keep in practice, or just to get free drinks, or maybe she actually isn't "taken" and that's her easy way of saying "I like you, but you're not the one I'm looking for". That doesn't mean they're evil people, and yes they can make good "Platonic" friends. I've had some good times with them, and maybe the have a friend or two who *is* available. They DO look out for each other that way. Who Cares! Don't take yourself so seriously, and learn to enjoy playing the game yourself (at least you're getting in some practice for the next girl). I really don't think they're trying to be hurtful or offensive (not ALL of them, anyway), they just want to have some fun.
Trialbyfire Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 To what degree do you consider a woman a tease?
Final Girl Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Flirting is fun, isn't it?? Why take it so seriously? When I have had a few drinks I can be very flirty..but I'm not intersted in any of the men I see at bars and would never want to date them. Just because I flirt doesn't mean they have an automatic right to me. So if I don't want them that's my decision. They're big boys..if they can't have fun, well - no wonder I don't want them!! I'm sure they can handle it.
lazlow99 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 A lot of the time it isn't just for fun though. They know what they're doing. I've had one girl who said she wanted a relationship with me, texted me as soon as she broke up with her boyfriend saying she wanted to go out etc.... When we were kissing etc she suddenly told me to stop, then ignored me and decided to move onto the next guy a day later. You can spot them because if they're seeing someone at the time, they will bitch about them to you and tell you how much of a d*ck they are. Try and make you sympathetic to them, and talk about how insecure they are and how they look fat or whatever when they don't. Usually they're the pretty ones too.
Final Girl Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Oh no I would never do that!! I like to have a bit of fun with everyone when I'm out but I make it clear as soon as I can that I'm not interested and if I'm seeing someone, then I don't flirt with anyone!! When I was young I kissed people I didn't want to date and think I hurt them, so now I keep it to just having a giggle with them!!!
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 10, 2008 Author Posted September 10, 2008 I'm not sure how to avoid this type of thing (if I were a guy), but a clue could be a girl who is wearing VERY revealing clothing (like a top that doesn't "hold her in" or a really short skirt). Hope that helped. Interesting... The one I just had an issue with always wears very short skirts indeed. She's insecure about it too.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 10, 2008 Author Posted September 10, 2008 Flirting is fun, isn't it?? Why take it so seriously? When I have had a few drinks I can be very flirty. If you let a guy touch your inner thighs and kiss your neck, is that still being flirty?
TheSilentType Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 Ignored her as if she was dead. Its even more fun than the flirting because I could tell it hurt her and I enjoyed it.
ed-205 Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 Flirting is fun, isn't it?? Why take it so seriously? When I have had a few drinks I can be very flirty..but I'm not intersted in any of the men I see at bars and would never want to date them. Just because I flirt doesn't mean they have an automatic right to me. So if I don't want them that's my decision. They're big boys..if they can't have fun, well - no wonder I don't want them!! I'm sure they can handle it. This is exactly my point. Flirting is something I never take seriously, and as a result I have fun with it too. How else is a guy like me going to get women half his age to talk to him without throwing money at them? They know I don't take them seriously, more importantly, I don't take *myself* too seriously, either!
Final Girl Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 If you let a guy touch your inner thighs and kiss your neck, is that still being flirty? If I didn't know him?? Well, in honesty I would have to be trolleyed for that to happen but that isn't being flirty...that's being reckless with my own safety - who knows what kind of psycho i'd be letting touch me!! :eek: And I wouldn't want the guy to get ideas...he might have a short fuse!! No flirting is fun...anything that is too risky isn't fun!! I wouldn't go too far purely out of concern for myself!! Hope that makes sense!!
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