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A little bit of back story. So I met my ex at work this summer and we had been going out since July 4th and made it "official" August 3rd and broke up yesterday after about 2 months of dating. She's 17 going on 18 in December and is a Senior in high school and im 19 and a sophmore in college but we go to school and live in the same city.

 

So since her school and my school started we hadn't seen each other that much due to schedules and lack of time for each other for about two weeks. So the earlier in the day of the breakup which was yesterday she was talking to our mutual friends at work and they told me she told one of them she didn't want to be in a relationship. She also told another one of my friends when he asked her about us that she still likes me and thinks that I'm a "nice guy", but she was kinda of getting bored with things lately because we haven't seen each other and she didn't know how or if she wanted to break up with me because she didn't know if she wanted me as a friend or boyfriend and she wanted to see if things maybe developed later if we broke up from friends to something more again and he said overall she sounded very confused and on the fence about what she wanted and that she really didn't want to lose me as a person in her life.

 

So after work we talked and I wanted to try and work things out, but she didn't really want to talk about it and she told me things weren't going to work out. When I asked her why she told me she has no time for me, that she has to do school, cheerleading (which she is very involved in) and work. I kept on trying to push it and told her will find time but she told me she's thought about it a lot and its not gonna happen that theres just too much going on. So me not wanting to break kept saying stuff and I told her that I still cared about her and she told me that she still cared about me, but she would rather have me as a friend than nothing at all and that we couldn't be friends right now. Then she told me that I didn't want her because she's messed up and that I deserved better than her and that we're two different people me being in college and her in high school. After a little bit more talking my someone else walked in I stormed off and left and was pretty mad and kicked the door and went to the parking lot. My friend was there and told me to go and try to talk to her as she was walking out so I pulled up next to her asking if we could talk and she just told me to go and not to talk to her now so I drove off. Pretty soon right after she texted me saying exactly "DONT CALL OR TXT ME. ill call u wen IM READY." I've been going no contact since this and plan on keeping on it unless she contacts me.

 

I know things weren't going well for the last couple weeks and that she really does have a busy schedule, but we went out the week before the breakup and she seemed happy to be with me and how things were going then this happened. I just wanna know what u guys think and if there is a chance that she'll call after the way I acted during the break up and what all this means because of what she told my friend whom she trusts and wouldn't just say this stuff to. I know not to hang on and wait and to just keep busy and live my life, but I just wanna know. And it's not gonna be easy though because I have to see her at work, but were only open for two more weekends because its a seasonal job and then I won't have to see her.

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