scold2886 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Well if you know my story over the last couple month's my life has been crazy. I was with her for 4 years and had a bad break up. So after the last 2 month's of hell with eachother i recently decided to just give it a little time and let go for now. Well over the last couple of weeks it's been hard.She called me tonight and told me she want's to work thing's out slowly. I'm give it a shot and take my time so we can be together for a long time this time. My whole family hate's her but i don't care about that because i love her. Now i ask for everyone's advice on how I should handle this and go about it to keep her in my good grace's.thank's bye.
BCCA Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Well, chances are your family wants you to be happy above all else. After a while, if you show them how much happier your life is with her in it, they'll warm up. Parents always want the best for their children, but you should proceed cautiously with the relationship. There is nothing worse then your family telling you someone is no good for you, then finding out the hard way the were right. You two need to get together and figure out what your problems are and what you are both going to do to fix them. She needs to be willing to really work on things as a team from now on, and you both need to know that the other one is here for the long haul and wont run out without trying to fix things. If you can do that, just take things slow. The plan is to spend forever with this person right? So dont worry about how long it takes to feel comfortable enough to give it another shot. Obviously, basic respect - if youre sleeping with each other, it should be exclusive (at least IMO). Outside of that, live your life and slowly incorporate her back into it. Just take each step with caution if you'er unsure.
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