Hexaggrm Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Hello everyone. i very new to this website and i have a small story to tell and see if anyone can give me answers and maybe steps or help on how to make this work. I met this girl at work and we've been talking for a month. She sometimes looks at me, and stares at me for about 10sec-1 minute, and we stay there, looking at eachother. I say hi, make conversations, joke around with her, and she feels very comfturable. So one day, shes saying goodbye to her girl/guy friends, but just tries to bypass me and get out. so im looking at her, and from a long distance, she just waves her hand. and im like *oook... fair enough*. Then she would try her hardest to avoid me, but we would still talk just like every other day, except when she was leaving work. so one day shes leaving, and i kept persisting she come over, shes laughing and nodding her head left and right declining it, untill she stops and gives me a *oh comon* type of face, and from a distance, i just wave and see her go. about 3 seconds later shes coming back with her head down, smiling, and then looks up and is just smiling and staring the entire time ignoring her guy/girl friends. I tell her *hey, comon lets go to the races, il take u on my s2000* she goes, "i cant, not tonight =(", so i say *how about tomorow* / " well im not doing anything tomroow, here write down my number". then she kinda blushes and walks away while everyone else is like . So i call her that night and invite her again to the race's and she says no that she cant. so when i asked about tomrow and where we were going, she quickly gave me the slip and said *i cant im going out of town tomorow, well neways seeya* and im like 0.0. then i tried calling her a couple of times and she never answers, never responds to text's. and when i go talk to her, there is an awkward silence for about 10 - 30 seconds. then i tried to ask her out again, but she said she was busy, and school , and she couldn't. So now im doubting myself if shes interested or not. and i havent talked to her in two days. the onyl time i talk to her is at work, and now i just say *hi* and thats it.
sultry33 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 tough one... on one hand she is flirty then shy;) maybe she does like you but how can you get her if she turns down all your invites? i like a guy an yes im guilty of the staring an then looking away.. hot/ cold but i just go weak.. plus dont want to come over too keen. if he asked me on a date id certainly go or suggest another place time etc.. maybe just ask her straight out if she would like to meet up anytime soon.. least you will know.. or move on welcome btw x
Author Hexaggrm Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 hmmm, well i really do like her. Im the type of guy that doesn't just randomize women like a honda car lot. so when i like a girl, i kinda grow on them faster than they grow on me. i stay single alot because i dont like to waste time. if she likes me back, il go ahead and try the relationship out, im not really picky. i really want to know, but at the same time, i can never decide to myself *whens the right time to tell her* or *should i wait for tomorow?*
Author Hexaggrm Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 my friends tell me to stop paying attention and play it cool, dont go to her desk alot, maby once and thats it, dont stare at her at all, give her the cold shoulder and shes bound to come t you. On the other hand, my other friends say / does she look at you alot? is she very playfull with u? does she get shy around you? does she try to avoid ur calls? then.. wtf are you doing standing here? go tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way!! so im stuck in the middle of two angles that could possible by 50/50 yes or no. but i like my odds to be 100/0.
FormerNiceGuy Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Read the "Does she like me" thread above.
Poncho Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Read the "Does she like me" thread above. That's a pretty good thread actually. Hex, man up and just do the damn thing, what have you got to lose? A little bit of your time? Sounds like you've already wasted plenty of that contemplating on what your next move is gonna be. Like the Nike commercial says, Just Do It. If it doesn't work out at least you know. If it does, more power to ya.
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