geekinthepink Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Do you think that if a guy simply wants a girl for sex that he would initiate the cuddling after the act? I am more inclined to beleive that a guy will cuddle with a girl PRIOR to sex if that is all he wants and then try to run for it when things are over. For a guy to pull the girl in, either physically, or make a motion with his eyes and arms I would lean towards he likes her as more than a friend. Also, if the girl and guy are watching tv and the girl moves into a position where they aren't cuddling anymore and he moves to spoon her, that would imply that he likes her right? Maybe I just have a ton of pig-headed male friends, lol, but most of them only cuddle if the really like the girl, when its just for sex they tend to do the bare minimum if that.
stillafool Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I guess it would seem so. You can't really tell by that. It may just be the mood he's in. I've never wanted to cuddle with a guy after sex. It's too hot.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I don't think you need to worry about the cuddling so much. He seems to like you.
Shygirl15 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Another way to know, is to simply ask him if he likes you or not.
stillafool Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Another way to know, is to simply ask him if he likes you or not. What??? That would be too easy.
Author geekinthepink Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 What??? That would be too easy. LOL! That is the most true answer EVER, but yes the hardest thing to do. HA! I was asking in general though as it seems in every guy or girl magazine that men hate cuddling and only do it if required.
Lauriebell82 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Cuddling is an action that individuals do to show affection and be close to one another. It can be done for several reasons (warmth, closeness, affection, love, ect). If a guy pulls you close and puts his arms around you, then most often he likes you. Guys who are just "in it for sex" usually bolt when the situation gets to "couple like."
Lucky_One Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 LOL! That is the most true answer EVER, but yes the hardest thing to do. HA! I was asking in general though as it seems in every guy or girl magazine that men hate cuddling and only do it if required. Stop reading those magazines. They will mess with your head. Guys cuddle if they are cuddling types. Girls cuddle if they are the cuddling types. Sometimes the types don't get matched up.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 I notice some guys don't like to cuddle after sex.... bitch of selfish bastards...
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