Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 I wouldn't say that you have to stick to your own race. Forgive me if this has already been stated, as I haven't read this entire thread, but... if a man EVER brings up race, especially early on, just leave him alone. Words like "exotic"... just run away! There are plenty of men out there who, may not be totally color blind, but may like you for your without your race being an issue. When men are too quick to ask my race they lose brownie points, yes... even the ones wondering if I was of their race. To me, it shouldn't matter. It sounds sort of like a "qualifier" to me... Date who you want to date, but just be more observant... and try not to give them the impression that you're the "booty call type" unless that's the only thing you want from him. ;-) I always get suspicious when a guy says that I'm their first asian or when they start asking whether I can introduce my friends to their friends. Total turn off. I don't mind sex, but I'm wary of the whole booty call thing, unless i ask for it.
monkey00 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 I've seen enough mtv vids with asian singers, and they qualify more as eye candy. The only reason I said that most asian men aren't good in bed is because most of them are sexually repressed. That's funny really...coming from someone who's never dated an asian guy ever. And I suppose you know because..?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 That's funny really...coming from someone who's never dated an asian guy ever. And I suppose you know because..? Because I have cousins who never talk about sex openly. And most of my asian friends stray away from the topic of sex.
CandyGirlXO Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 My EX is Korean and one of the best lovers I have ever had! IMO it depends on the person. I have had great sex with a white guy and I've had horrible sex with a white guy.
monkey00 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Because I have cousins who never talk about sex openly. And most of my asian friends stray away from the topic of sex. Would those cousins and friends happen to be male or female? Well you said most, what about the rest that don't? I'm not sure about the people in your circle, but not everyone is comfortable with talking about sex openly or who they screwed or had a ONS with. Just because someone doesn't talk about it doesn't imply anything.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 My EX is Korean and one of the best lovers I have ever had! IMO it depends on the person. I have had great sex with a white guy and I've had horrible sex with a white guy. Good for you. But I find most Korean guys trying way too hard to be gansters. I mean there are a few that are very sweet, but then there's always the one trying way too hard to be players.
Green Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 I once got in a fight with a big guy from hong kong... I won. I alway find it funny when I see the asian dating groups out at the clubs... you got the 3 asian guys with the 3 asian girls. So what steps have u taken? are u going on any dates this fast aproaching weekend?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 Would those cousins and friends happen to be male or female? Well you said most, what about the rest that don't? I'm not sure about the people in your circle, but not everyone is comfortable with talking about sex openly or who they screwed or had a ONS with. Just because someone doesn't talk about it doesn't imply anything. Monkey, you live in NY, most asians in NY try too hard to be black or gangsters. I'm not attracted to gang wannabes or a guy that's more interested in living a virtual realities rather than the real world. And sex is important in a relationship. If they're uncomfortable talking about it, then it's fine. But if they avoid it 100%, then I have to question their sexuality and how much experience they have.
CandyGirlXO Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 Yeah weird he was kind of like that. I broke up with him because of his temper but stop stereotyping everyone is different. IMO Asains have adorable babies!
Green Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 you could go out with the good kind of half asian... you know all their good qualities none of their weakness's like hybrid
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 I once got in a fight with a big guy from hong kong... I won. I alway find it funny when I see the asian dating groups out at the clubs... you got the 3 asian guys with the 3 asian girls. So what steps have u taken? are u going on any dates this fast aproaching weekend? KMT, I don't understand what beating up a guy has anything to do with me. It just tells me you have anger problems. Funny, you're talking about the so- called asian groupies. When I go out with my friends, I make sure they leave their bfs at home.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 Yeah weird he was kind of like that. I broke up with him because of his temper but stop stereotyping everyone is different. IMO Asains have adorable babies! I think all babies are adorable. Stop stereotyping babies..
Green Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 KMT, I don't understand what beating up a guy has anything to do with me. It just tells me you have anger problems. I forgot to mention he was trying to capture and cook a dog
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 I forgot to mention he was trying to capture and cook a dog Are you sure it wasn't the other way around? You must have dog confused with a perverted American.
Green Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 your a perverted american you better bless your small boobs tonight that I took care of the man from hong kong
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 your a perverted american you better bless your small boobs tonight that I took care of the man from hong kong Actually I would have prefered it was the other way around, that way boobs everywhere are safe from you.
KinAZ Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 I always get suspicious when a guy says that I'm their first asian or when they start asking whether I can introduce my friends to their friends. Total turn off. I don't mind sex, but I'm wary of the whole booty call thing, unless i ask for it. It's not a matter of liking sex, but giving the impression that you're one who could be called for a booty call. Generally, all it takes is one no-strings-attached encounter with a man for him to think he can get another one. You're not going to be able to get around that if you engage in such things, unless you lay the rules down that he only gets some when you initiate... and he agrees to the arrangement. If you have any men calling you for a casual encounter, and you've never been physical with them or implied that you might be interested in such a thing... verbally snap his balls off. That's extremely rude and disrespectful. Don't even keep such a man as a friend...
Author xpaperxcutx Posted September 11, 2008 Author Posted September 11, 2008 ... snap his balls off. :lmao: I'll keep that in mind.
Mending1985 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 your a perverted american you better bless your small boobs tonight that I took care of the man from hong kong KMT - what is wrong with you?? Lol every post you've written today has been a little bit mean
KinAZ Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 :lmao: I'll keep that in mind. I didn't mean to be funny, but it's true. I'm not sure how you know these men or your relationships with them, but Asian guys will do the same thing. It's either the class of the man, your relationship with the man, or both. Booty calls know no racial boundaries. I've had a number of short term relationships, and anyone can make of those what they will. They've always come back, sniffing around for whatever reasons, but I've only had two men foolish enough to boldly place a booty call to me when we never had that sort of relationship. 1. Was a guy I told "we need to slow down". He got drunk and made the mistake of his life. He was very well behaved the next time I heard from him. 2. My exhusband. We had one encounter before the divorce was finalized, because "we were still married." Thereafter he tried again and again, but also attempting to weasel his way back into my life in general. The only reason I tolerated his silliness was because of our relationship. But, when he started doing that while he was in a relationship with someone else... let's just say that he took his name off of the emergency penis list. Sometimes you just have to be mean. Sometimes mean is simply being honest. If you don't draw the line, no one will no where it is. While drawing that line clearly could destroy future possibilities with that guy, the truth is... you probably wouldn't want any sort of future with him anyway.
Green Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 KMT - what is wrong with you?? Lol every post you've written today has been a little bit mean just keep enjoying it
Mending1985 Posted September 11, 2008 Posted September 11, 2008 just keep enjoying it I'm a bit ashamed to admit that I do lol
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