bliscio Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 All, I’ve been dating this girl (31 yrs. old) for over a year now. And I feel like I’m wasting her time. She seems like she would make the perfect wife in most ways. The thing is I just don’t feel the way I think I should! I think I should be crazy about the person I’m with. My problem is feeling like the shallow guy I don’t want to be, but I’m not completely attracted to her? I would love some comments..
GoodOnPaper Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 If you think you are wasting her time (I assume in regards to an LTR), then you probably are. At this early stage, passion, chemistry, etc. should definitely NOT be the weak link in the relationship. Speaking from experience, if it's not there now, it won't magically generate after marriage.
Lauriebell82 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 All, I’ve been dating this girl (31 yrs. old) for over a year now. And I feel like I’m wasting her time. She seems like she would make the perfect wife in most ways. The thing is I just don’t feel the way I think I should! I think I should be crazy about the person I’m with. My problem is feeling like the shallow guy I don’t want to be, but I’m not completely attracted to her? I would love some comments.. Have you felt this way since you started dating? If you think you are wasting her time then you are DEFINATELY, as well as your time also. Did this non-attraction suddenly start? Did her appearance change? If that's the case and you aren't attracted to her then okay, but you have to know that looks change. No woman is going to have a "hot bod" for the rest of her life. It's just like Goodonpaper said: If you aren't attracted to her now, marriage is not going to fix that!
Author bliscio Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 Thanks.. The looks didn't change it's just the personality got me hooked! But I don't care what people say, Looks matter. even if they fade!
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