CaliGuy Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Holy crap!!! I have this new neighbor and she is smoking hot. I mean drop dead gorgeous. She's at least 5'10" tall, Caucasion/Asian mix, long beautiful legs, etc. I mean just abolutely a knock out. She was hanging out at the pool yesterday and we started talking a bit. We were getting along great, having a fun conversation, chatting it up....and I thought connecting.... ...then I noticed the wedding ring. Someone shoot me, LOL Just my luck...oh well, I can admire her beauty but she is absolutely off limits!
2sunny Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 this is the way i viewed things when i was married: i'm maried - not dead. i can have fun with whoever i want i just can't cross the line. i can have a conversation and enjoy the company of anyone, anywhere as long as i am aware of my personal boundaries. i can enjoy the common interests with others and have life experiences along the way because there are many people in the world i enjoy things about/with other than the one person i married. this person is not expected to fulfill EVERY little interest/need/expectation/conversation that life should be in order to be happy/fulfilled. this could be male/female, young old smart/uneducated - well, you get the picture. i can then dream anything i want in my mind and still be faithful. my actions never got me into trouble - i was just enjoying the company of those around me while i happened to be married.
Author CaliGuy Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 2Sunny, what exactly did you dream in your mind? lol...
2sunny Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 2Sunny, what exactly did you dream in your mind? lol... same thing you dreamed last night! which was that you have your way with the gal at the pool. she probably was dreaming of you too. to dream of mad passionate sex with someone you were just attracted to is your minds way of telling you that you have that person at the forefront - for the moment. doesn't mean you are going to act on the thoughts - this is why we are humans - with a conscience and self control.
nopainnogain Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I have this neighbor and she is hott too. We have been neighbs for 4 years now. For all the years she has been married and I was engaged with my ex. My ex cheated on me and we split 6 months ago. Around the same time her husband cheats on her and now she wants nothing to do with him. She already has an annulment in the works. So we have been going out and having a great time. We went to raging waters yesterday. If someone told me that me and her would be seeing eachother lets say....a year ago, I woulda said "your crazy" Crazy how times change
Author CaliGuy Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Well she is totally off limits and when I did think about her I quickly occupied my thoughts with something else. Too bad al the ones I like are taken, lol
Author CaliGuy Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 I have this neighbor and she is hott too. We have been neighbs for 4 years now. For all the years she has been married and I was engaged with my ex. My ex cheated on me and we split 6 months ago. Around the same time her husband cheats on her and now she wants nothing to do with him. She already has an annulment in the works. So we have been going out and having a great time. We went to raging waters yesterday. If someone told me that me and her would be seeing eachother lets say....a year ago, I woulda said "your crazy" Crazy how times change Wow that is a great story. I can't imagine her husband being that stupid though...why get married if you can cheat???
nopainnogain Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Yeah, that guy is a moron. This girl that is my neighbor is not only smokin hott but she is off the charts personality wise. And ive seen the girl he cheated on her with , shes a creature. I guess they are drinking buddies since this girl doesnt drink. Any whoo, this neighbor friend and I have really been hitting it off.Shes always txting, calling ,emailing. She even said we are rebounding off eachother. lol. We hold hands when we go out. Yesterday we kissed,just a peck . I felt weird cuz she is still married but she has no intentions of going back to him. Since we were both cheated on and betrayed we are kinda helping each other. I say with this girl that is your neighbor just be very cool because you never know what the future holds.
flc Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I have a neighbor two houses down who is very attractive and divorced. The only contact I have had with her was when I was married. I almost never see her and have dropped some hints to the women who lives next store to see if she can pass it on when they talk. I have been thinking about needing to borrow some sugar but that just seems a bit lame.
nopainnogain Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 . I have been thinking about needing to borrow some sugar but that just seems a bit lame. actually thats a good idea. Go knock on her door and say "give me some suga:D" lol j/k
Author CaliGuy Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 actually thats a good idea. Go knock on her door and say "give me some suga:D" lol j/k I concur. What do you have to lose??
flc Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 True, so far my dating life has been rather full so this is back burner. Of course the funny part is I first met her when she came over to borrow something, but of course I was married. We then saw each other at a couple of parties that our common neighbor had and again I was still married. Now that I am single I can't run into her no matter how hard I try:)
Trialbyfire Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Well that's no fun Cali! You're going to have to find a neighborhood full of singles. Btw, the last neighbour who I dated, not the most recent friend's/friend or actor guy, used the borrow sugar line on me. That he never took sugar in his coffee made it even funnier, after he fessed up!
Author CaliGuy Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Well that's no fun Cali! You're going to have to find a neighborhood full of singles. True but it will be hard to find a single woman that is as attractive as she is without 50,000 horn dogs after her, lol. Btw, the last neighbour who I dated, not the most recent friend's/friend or actor guy, used the borrow sugar line on me. That he never took sugar in his coffee made it even funnier, after he fessed up! Well her sugar is off limits to me, lol!
sultry33 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 I have a hot neighbour too;) kept my summer smoking hot, even got me back in my garden... damn now the summer is gone i may have to knock on his door... what do you ask a tanned 6 foot muscle machine? norty replies will do....
Author CaliGuy Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 I have a hot neighbour too;) kept my summer smoking hot, even got me back in my garden... damn now the summer is gone i may have to knock on his door... what do you ask a tanned 6 foot muscle machine? norty replies will do.... Yeah but is he single?! In my case, she's got a big rock on her finger. If she didn't, it'd be GAME ON!!!!
sultry33 Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Yeah but is he single?! In my case, she's got a big rock on her finger. If she didn't, it'd be GAME ON!!!! never seen him with one girl..been a couple but its a shared house.. my daughter did say .. hey your my mums type:laugh: he laughed .. has smiled too, but he is eye candy to me, aswell as a daydream now an then. You need to get out, there will be plenty of hotties without a big rock, besides meeting someone sooo close can cause major problems.. distance is your friend;)
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