I really like this guy but I dont know if he is into me (3rd time written)

[Barthca3]

(This was re-written because I was rushing when I first wrote it and may have caused a little confusion)

 

So I met this guy not to long ago named Chris through my friend Brian. Brian really likes me a lot and gets very jealous if I hang out with any of the guys he introduces me to. But we are just friends so he really doesnt have much control over that. And we are both well aware that we are not together, even though he may have strong feelings for me.

 

Well I started running into to Chris and he invited me to hang out. We hung out a few times and always had a lot of fun. He said he was very attracted to me and what not but explained that he just got out of a relationship and cant seem to get over his ex girlfriend. He would still invite me over all the time or out to do things. I told him I didnt want Brian to find out that we were hanging out because I didnt want him to get upset.

 

Well a couple of days go by and I was hanging out at Brians house. We had a lot to drink so I stayed the night. Well I guess Chris decided to drive buy through out the night to see if I was there. Then the next day Chris sent me all these nasty text messages about him knowing that I stayed at Brians house and that I dont have to lie about it and all this crazy stuff. After arguing back and fourth we just stopped talking to one another for a couple days.

 

It seemed so ridiculous to me that we were fighting over this so I just finally called him to talk it out. He was like I dont care I am not your boyfriend and what not. I told him I was not trying to make it like he was my boyfriend I was just upset and insulted that he would assume that I am over Brians doing other things when that wasnt the case and I was just upset that he was sending me such nasty text messages.

 

I dont really know what to make of all this but I really do like him and I feel like he does like me but for some reason he is putting it off. It seems a bit obvious because of his reaction to what happened but maybe I am just the one that sees it that way. I am so confused and bad with these situations so I would really appreciate any advice. Thank you!!!!!!

[Barthca3]

I am really looking for some opinions on this situation so if you take a moment to actually read my post then I ask that you please please please take one more minute to write me a quick response. Thank you sooo much and have a wonderful day!

[Shygirl15]

Barthca, what can I say. I mean that Chris guy sounds very immature though. Why would he insult you like that if you two are not in a BF/GF relationship? Leave him alone. Let him calm down, then if he wants to talk to you, let him come to you on his own.

[jen's mind]

Why is Chris tripping over you being anywhere, considering that he's not your boyfriend?

 

It sounds like he needs to deal with himself for awhile. You already know that you didn't do anything wrong. Do you like this guy enough to take on his crazy feelings and actions?

 

Don't doubt yourself. Do remember that sometimes circumstances arise that guide us to or away from certain people, and trust that it's always for a reason.

[JohnnyBlaze]

It sounds like he likes you, but isn't ready for a relation just yet. He's not available to you yet, but he wants you to remain waiting and available to him. I agree with SG and Jen; leave him be to deal with his demons. Once he's come around, it'll be his problem to come to you...if you're still single then.

[winx717]

I think it sounds like they are both jealous of each other and jealousy is an ugly thing. I thinkn that if you're in to Chris, maybe you should let him know that. He does however sound extremely immature, but hey, how would you feel if he was staying at some girl's house, innocent or not. If the feelings are there, it will work itself out. Let him come to you!

 

Good Luck!