smile711 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I guess it's a good thing, but I'm starting to see that my R with the MM wasn't healthy for many reasons. I backed down and gave in every single time to him because I was afraid to rock the boat and have him leave. Joke's on me-he left anyways! If I had known he was going to do that, I would've stood up for myself more. He has an addiction to alcohol and drugs, the full extent of which I didn't realize until we were living together. When I questioned him about it, he responded that I needed to give him a "free pass" because of the stress he was going through and he was "disappointed" in me for making a big deal out of it. He used to make me feel guilty when I would go out with friends and he would go home to his W. I guess love really is blind! I should be grateful that he is no longer part of my future-my friends and family are. Time alone has to be preferable to time with someone who needs a constant fix of nicotine, alcohol, pills, or drugs.
crystal_lostheart Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Anyone is better off without this in their life - it is good that you are realising this. Good Luck and stay strong - don't make the same mistakes again
jj33 Posted September 10, 2008 Posted September 10, 2008 Thats great progress Smiles. Good for you. Keep remembering that and you will keep going forward.
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