SundaeMorning Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 so a mutual friend of mine and my ex's IMed me today... did the "hey, long time no talk" thing.. we talked about getting people together for dinner and drinks sometime, but the mutual friend said "oh the only problem is that [ex] gets all uncomfortable about people hanging out with you" i'm thinking about that in the current sense.... like, oh that would be, you know.. normal or whatever, if he felt sensitive about his friends hanging out with me... i guess? even though he broke up with me. do guys ever feel that way? but, the mutual friend said that it was mostly whenever i went to hang lunch with Friend B. i got a little irked about that, bc... i went to hang out with Friend B more than once.. and never hid anything from my ex bc it was a friendly thing, nothing to hide.. and the ex never communicated his feelings about it to me. not saying that it would justify me not being able to hang out with certain people... my point here is that.... it bothered me to realize that the ex and i didn't communicate well..... and that takes away from the hyped up relationship i had in my head all this time. it makes the R lose its enchantment, so to speak. i guess realizing the things that were so different between us or all the negative things that would lead to a break up... makes it hard to keep the R in a good light. i don't like that feeling. i don't want to feel like the relationship was less than what it was...... two people who loved and cared for each other... but found they were incompatible and incapable of being "the one" for the other.
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