Should I or Shouldn't I?

[2sunny]

you know - i say date who ever you want whenever you want. you're not married.

 

just don't lie to them - if they need to ask where they stand - be upfront.

 

other than that - go have fun!

[Lishy]

I have not read all of the replies but you should SO call him!!!!!!!!

 

I would be more worried about dating someone so close to home than a sexy actor!!!!!!!!

 

Ooooo but one thing, if you end up getting jiggy with the actor make sure you use 3 condoms, just in case lol

 

Loving your honesty by the way, tell em straight up and you are doing no wrong!

[Trialbyfire]

It's not as if I don't multi-date when not committed in a relationship. This one concerns me, due to what he does as a profession and also how much affect he's had on me, just with one very short meeting. This never, ever happens to me. Men never affect me like this upon initial meet. I'm intrigued and yet, reluctant and hesitant. It's like putting your car in park while revving your engine. It's going nowhere.

[Trialbyfire]

Haha Lishy, a full head to toe condom!

[Lishy]

Oh TBF this guy is smoooooooth .... I am getting tingles just hearing about him hahhaha

 

And yes, I didnt wanna say it, but get a head to toe 'dom' and wrap some asbestos around it! ... Better to be safe then sorry:confused:

[Lishy]

Ok I have made an executive decision

 

I have decided, after much deliberation, that you MUTS call him and go on a date, even if it is just to tell us how it went lol

 

He sounds dreamy!

[Trialbyfire]

Haha....burn baby burn!

 

To avoid permanent scarring from burns, use liquid asbestos. This will ensure you protect every nook and cranny.

[Trialbyfire]

Stop it Lishy! I'm already tempted to go on one date, just for curiosity sakes.

[Lishy]

Stop it Lishy! I'm already tempted to go on one date, just for curiosity sakes.

 

OMG you SO have to go!

 

I positively INSIST!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I dare you to call him now

 

Double dare!

[Trialbyfire]

Grrr...I won't bite...this time.

 

The more I think about it, the more 2sunny's wait and see approach appeals to me. Let's see if he shows up at the elevator or knocks at my door. His door faces the elevator so if I'm standing and waiting, I'm sure he can see me through the peep hole. Wow, that sounds so creepy and stalkerish!

[Nemo]

I have decided, after much deliberation, that you MUTS

I agree, she totally MUTS!!!!

[Lishy]

I agree, she totally MUTS!!!!

 

Uhoh, I thnik I Mgiht be Dylesixc!

[Star Gazer]

Trial, do you think he said, "I'm FROM Canada," which made you think he meant "born"?

 

The way you're feeling right now, this whole "I never feel this way" feeling...THAT's the kind of feeling I have had that I look for, but now makes me run in the other direction.

[Trialbyfire]

It's possible that I either misheard or misunderstood him. I'll clarify it, if he shows up again. It's not difficult to steer the convo towards this. "It's pretty cool that Vancouver has stars like x, y, z, this guy, who were born here". If that's inaccurate, he'll correct me.

 

The only guy I ever got butterflies with was my ex-H, and only after 2 years of pursuit where I wasn't impressed, until I had changed my mind. Then the butterflies came and hit hard.

 

Both these men are charismatic individuals and I know it's not just looks. No matter how good-looking a man is, if he's not too bright or timid, he's not attractive. Hmmm...something to think about.

[Nemo]

"If you want a date, don't beat around the bush"

 

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[Trialbyfire]

Well he's not beating around the bush. A dozen white roses were left at my door, while I was out powerwalking with a friend. Nothing but a little note that said, why haven't you called yet? This guy is too much.

[Nemo]

powerwalking

Oh dear. That's not such a good look.

 

I hope his mood stays firm.

[Trialbyfire]

Ha...she powerwalks, I just try to keep up. If I'm not careful, I might have to break into a jog!

 

Just slipped my business card under his door, with this written on the back:

 

"Thank-you for the gorgeous roses!"

 

This is fun. Haven't met a guy as playful, for awhile now. I think I'm in serious trouble with this one.

[goldencloud]

It is very tempting huh!

but at same time seems you might have something good with the other guy, but like you said nothing serious as of yet!

perhaps there is no great harm in meeting mr actor for a coffee or so forth...we are allowed to have friends after all:rolleyes:

[vonerik012]

It is finally nice to hear a guy putting some effort into a woman, as I feel it should be.

 

I think you should definitely go out with him.

[Prodigal Princess]

*squeals*

 

Im so excited for you, TBF!! I'm in the middle of a man drought at the moment so Im living vicariously through you. Please keep us updated and spill all the juicy details as soon as you see him again!

[Star Gazer]

Well he's not beating around the bush. A dozen white roses were left at my door, while I was out powerwalking with a friend. Nothing but a little note that said, why haven't you called yet? This guy is too much.

 

OMG, I love it!!! How adorable!

 

(Then again, that's almost too smooth...)

[Trialbyfire]

Thanks goldencloud, although A. isn't the friend or coffee type.

 

Hello, von? You must not be feeling well. Rescind your post now or forever go down in the LS archives as making an encouraging post towards a woman!

 

Haha...PP, too funny. He called. D-Lish was right. This guy has never been turned down before in his life. He liked it.

 

I know Star, talk about ballsy and yet funny. I must admit he reminds me a bit like the ex. A similar style charisma and in hindsight, that same way they look at you, in that you could be in a crowd of beautiful women but his focus would still be intensely on you. BIG trouble!

[underpants]

I know Star, talk about ballsy and yet funny. I must admit he reminds me a bit like the ex. A similar style charisma and in hindsight, that same way they look at you, in that you could be in a crowd of beautiful women but his focus would still be intensely on you. BIG trouble!

 

 

Please be careful.

[Capricciosa]

 

(Then again, that's almost too smooth...)

 

I totally agree. Those magnetizing charmers (and god knows I have been suckered in more than once), are often womanizers/players. As a friend once said, "in the beginning they look like a shiny penny you want to pick up and put in your pocket." But we all know what a penny is actually worth. Proceed with extreme caution.