JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Let's say a man and a woman are about to cross the street. When the light turns green, the woman offers her hand, the guy grabs it and they cross the street (traditionally, it would be the other way around). What's your experience with this? Does it make a difference who initiates this?
Tomcat33 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I'd rather get hit by a car than intiate hand holding with a man. Ok now this was funny Joenewbie!
awesomeness43 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Normally, the guy should initiate it. Or... maybe its just me. I usually try not to over do anything but if i see necessary, ie cold night... ill hold her close, crossing the street or letting her walk on the inside of the side walk, and of course opening doors. Also, at clubs standing between her and creepers. =D WOW i am def hubby material.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 I'd rather get hit by a car than intiate hand holding with a man. Ok now this was funny Joenewbie! Don't laugh, it actually happened to me!! I really liked the girl so I didn't mind at all but in retrospect I thought "oh my god she probably thinks she's leading now"!
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 WOW i am def hubby material. You are indeed. I have many very pretty single cousins who are looking for a gentleman just like you...
johan Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 It can have bad implications if she also snaps her fingers and barks "let's go!"
Star Gazer Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I really liked the girl so I didn't mind at all but in retrospect I thought "oh my god she probably thinks she's leading now"! Seeing as you like her, what would be wrong with that?
Ronni_W Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Joe, could just be how you're reading it -- when I'm in a position of feeling at risk or 'weak' in some way, I will reach for him, or call him, or whatever. It may LOOK as if I'm offering support but I'm actually seeking it, I mean. (As if my Superman really has power to stop a speeding bullet on my behalf... then again, we've never had to put it to the test, so I'm just gonna stay believing that he can )
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Seeing as you like her, what would be wrong with that? Hey I'm all for equality! I really like her and I thought it was really cool.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Joe, could just be how you're reading it -- when I'm in a position of feeling at risk or 'weak' in some way, I will reach for him, or call him, or whatever. It may LOOK as if I'm offering support but I'm actually seeking it, I mean. (As if my Superman really has power to stop a speeding bullet on my behalf... then again, we've never had to put it to the test, so I'm just gonna stay believing that he can ) That's very comforting... I guess I was reading it like "let's cross the street and let me pave the way"...
Star Gazer Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Joe, could just be how you're reading it -- when I'm in a position of feeling at risk or 'weak' in some way, I will reach for him, or call him, or whatever. It may LOOK as if I'm offering support but I'm actually seeking it, I mean. (As if my Superman really has power to stop a speeding bullet on my behalf... then again, we've never had to put it to the test, so I'm just gonna stay believing that he can ) I totally agree. I've instinctively reached for a hand or an arm in seeking protection.
Tomcat33 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Don't laugh, it actually happened to me!! I really liked the girl so I didn't mind at all but in retrospect I thought "oh my god she probably thinks she's leading now"! I'm so sorry I thought this was a joke. Carry on, I'll get my coat....
Jilly Bean Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Joe, she's holding your hand, not your dick. Now, if a woman leads you around by that, then yes, it's submissive on your part.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 I'm so sorry I thought this was a joke. Carry on, I'll get my coat.... It was one of many silly questions I've been thinking about today. Now I have to ask her out and I can't remember the last time I was this nervous about a lady.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Now, if a woman leads you around by that... All women do that, no?
Jilly Bean Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 All women do that, no? LOL. Euphemistically, I suppose so...
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 LOL. Euphemistically, I suppose so... And what about phone sex, is that submissive as well?
Jilly Bean Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Er, I assume YOU are holding it then, no? Oh, I just got that. See how I blocked it out? BAD JOE, BAD! lol
Trimmer Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 And what about phone sex, is that submissive as well? I depends... do you tie a blindfold around the phone before you do it?
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 I depends... do you tie a blindfold around the phone before you do it? Actually with a webcam I'd put a bit of black tape on my screen!
Jersey Shortie Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Joe, she's holding your hand, not your dick. Now, if a woman leads you around by that, then yes, it's submissive on your part Well you could have rejected her hand holding but then she probably would have thought that you didn't like her.
Tomcat33 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Just don't handcuff yourself if you plan to have cybersex, it just won't work.
Tomcat33 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Well you could have rejected her hand holding but then she probably would have thought that you didn't like her. Yeah especially if you expliamed "eww eweeew cooties ewww" and wiped your hand on your jeans.
Author JoeNewbie Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Just don't handcuff yourself if you plan to have cybersex, it just won't work. Did you seriously try it and it didn't work? Damn, that was on my "to do" list!
Tomcat33 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Did you seriously try it and it didn't work? Damn, that was on my "to do" list! I wont waste a good set of cuffs on a some lame azz cyber chat NO WAY. Live or go home baby.
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