Sugatree Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 When my ex gave me the lets be friends for now speech, it broke my heart and I poured my heart out to a guy friend of mine, who always had a little crush on me, but nothing came of it. Well the ex found out I was talking to this guy. I got numerous texts from my ex saying stuff like why did I speak to him about our personal issues...And how long was I in contact with this guy for me to run to him, Im going NC right now and i get a message from him saying :Ok ,if you dont want to get back together in the future its cool,I know its because of him.Maybe i should do the same! WTF...
wareagle Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Your ex is jealous!!! He has no right to tell you who you can or can't talk to!!! Ignore him, you have gone NC then stay NC!!! He wanted you out of his life now he needs to stay out of yours! It's none of his business who you are friends with!!
Author Sugatree Posted September 7, 2008 Author Posted September 7, 2008 Well now he tells me that he only wanted a break not a break up he just wanted to be alone for a while so he can decide if im the one he can see marrying , he doesnt want us to end up getting married then regretting it later on (Gawd how romantic) What should i make of this?
wareagle Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 He is playing games trying to mind**** you!! He wants to see if the grass is greener on the other side!! Trust me!! MY ex did this several times throughout our relationship, and each time came running back, and each time it was good for awhile then it all went to **** again!! Do you want to be second best? I don't think you do!! Continue NC, ignore him, actions speak louder than words, do not do anything until he comes to your door begging on his hands and knees for you back!!! Even then proceed with caution, because like I said before actions speak LOUDER than words!! You don't want to be a doormat! I was a doormat to my ex and let her walk her dirty ass feet all over me for a year and half!! It's not fun!!! Don't let this guy do the same thing to you!! Have some self respect!! God knows I lost all of mine during my doormat day's!!! LOL!!
sultry33 Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 as above... dont be a doormat.. been there done that i got the keep the guys away an be a good girl;) whilst he is snapped with another girl wtf i too fell for the i dont want rs right now.. im not sure where my life is blar blar.. give him time if you wish but live your life.. i have always thought if you love someone and want to marry them like i was told.. then you dont leave you try an work it out.. i know i would:)
Author Sugatree Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 Hey Sultry LUV the sig Small problem i MIGHT be pregnant, wont know till Friday. Its gonna be a loooonnngggg week. I will give him he's space BUT if he sticks his noodle in anything during this space/friend time there is NO WAY i will go back to him! Im nobody's second choice.
sultry33 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 Hey Sultry LUV the sig Small problem i MIGHT be pregnant, wont know till Friday. Its gonna be a loooonnngggg week. I will give him he's space BUT if he sticks his noodle in anything during this space/friend time there is NO WAY i will go back to him! Im nobody's second choice. thanks suga.. i changed it this week so i can see it if i become weak...but im sure that i wont now no matter what. damn get a test done now.. waiting would do me in.. just make sure you make decisions on what you want.. you are the important one not your ex:) hope it is ok for you x
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