citizen67 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 If you think you might possibly be interested in quitting smoking order this book. The author encourages you to continue smoking while reading it, and its not a "your are so unhealthy" approach. It worked for me
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 8, 2008 Author Posted September 8, 2008 I've kissed weed smokers and cig smokers and weed breath isn't bad and it doesn't linger. IMO. Also if you do any research you'd know that it's not harmful and doens't kill brain cells, like alcohol, for example. Your used to the smell so of course you wouldn't think it's bad, same goes for anything, your shampoo or air freshener. After a while you don't notice it. Also just because something isn't as harmful as something else, doesn't make it not harmful. I don't want this to turn into a marijuana thread, just don't convince yourself it's not. As you said it's effecting your relationship. http://www.nida.nih.gov/infofacts/marijuana.html
cheezy100 Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I personally don't smoke and I dislike smokers. I'm a student nurse and I've seen my patients with breathing problems. The guy i'm dating now told me that "girls that smoke are a big turnoff." Smokers smell in general and I feel like I can't breath when just standing next to them.
Author sweetbutcheeky Posted September 9, 2008 Author Posted September 9, 2008 It's clear that those who responded wouldn't date a smoker. What about those who do smoke, do people get turned off and not want to date you when they find out? Does it cause problems in your relationship? Since it as brought up, would you date someone who smokes weed, for the same resons and of smoking in general but also that the reasons people smoke weed. I actually had a guy today send me a message but when I read 420 friendly, it turned me off and I wasn't really interested anymore. I did read the whole message and there are other issues but that is a big turn off.
spookie Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 It's clear that those who responded wouldn't date a smoker. What about those who do smoke, do people get turned off and not want to date you when they find out? Does it cause problems in your relationship? Since it as brought up, would you date someone who smokes weed, for the same resons and of smoking in general but also that the reasons people smoke weed. I actually had a guy today send me a message but when I read 420 friendly, it turned me off and I wasn't really interested anymore. I did read the whole message and there are other issues but that is a big turn off. I like weed so much that I would prefer to date a smoker, but an occasional one, not someone who was constantly high. IMO, amongst people who are "420-friendly" and enjoy weed above certain amount, the tendency is to be complete potheads, something I hope never happens to me and I wouldn't be able to respect in a partner. It's pretty picky of me, I realize that, but ideally, my SO would smoke with me on the weekends and evenings. I've never had anyone reject me for smoking pot, though I've dated guys who didn't smoke and didn't like it. My current BF is very anti-weed and was opposed to my smoking at first, but we compromised somewhat when I pointed out that I was going to quit drinking if I could continued to smoke, wheras he drinks like a fish. He was never going to break up with me over this, but I think this line of logic won him over to being ok with it.
mixwell Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 I've never had any problems and I smoke.. The non smoking woman I dated didn't like it but we never split because of it.. My girl now doesn't smoke and hates it but she tolerates it. I just try to blow the smoke out the window when I drive and I still kiss her after I've smoked. I think if you are a smoker and someone doesn't want to be with you because of that then F them.. You shouldn't have to change your ways to make the other person accept you.
Ruby Slippers Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 My boyfriend stopped smoking when we got together. He asked me if it was a deal-breaker, I said yes, and he quit. He admitted he bums one now and then when he's really stressed and I'm not around. I don't like it, but I figure if it amounts to a handful of cigarettes a year that I don't have to smell or taste, I can live with that.
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