spookie Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Is that a trainwreck waiting to happen? TT dropped the L bomb last night. And the thing is, I felt it too. Those butterflies... they were so strong I was literally shaking. Which makes me so nervous. I've had a decent amount of experience for my 22 years, both life-wise and romantically. I think as far as people in their 20's go, I'm actually pretty mature. I've been in an LTR, I've dated since I was 15, and I've analyzed the s!ht out of everything. I know what I want, what flags to look for, how I tick; I have a solid idea of how others tick. TT on the other hand... I'm his first girlfriend. His standards are high plus he's shy. I'm the first person he's had sex with because he's always wanted to wait to be in an R with someone he cared about. I'm scared he won't be able to commit because of his lack of experience. Or he'll commit but feel like he missed out. Do you think it's possible for someone to have the maturity to be ready to be in a long-term R that doesn't *have* to end, without having had any experience whatsoever? I know personally, I have to learn all my lessons the hard way. But is that the case for everyone?
Ariadne Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Do you think it's possible for someone to have the maturity to be ready to be in a long-term R that doesn't *have* to end, without having had any experience whatsoever? I know personally, I have to learn all my lessons the hard way. But is that the case for everyone? Nah, just wait till you get bored of the TT or move back to Texas.
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