DunnoWhat Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Long story short.. met a girl. We dated about 6 times but had a bad date last week. She suggested a break and we talked about it and i thought it was forgotton about. We are just friends mainly but it's complicated. During the week i sensed she was acting strangely so I decided to break it off with her for a few weeks and not see or talk with her for a few weeks. She got that break up email today.. On msn she sent me a strange message. It was like "hi, i think everything you said was right, I will go in other dates like you said and meet better and worse people then you. I'm not desperate to meet somebody. let me know your dating progress sometime, god bless you." I was a little surprised by that responce She was on MSN later and I logged in and was surprised with her attitude. She seemed very cold and wanted me off. I said lovely things about her and not one thank you or she didn't say anything good about me. She said she was good and when I asked her what was wrong she said "well we're breaking i'm not going to laugh and smile it away". Also she said things like "we both want a break so good". Where I'm confused is by her attitude. If she wanted a break too why was she so cold and distant?? She's usually very warm and only during the week was saying things like "think we could live our life like that togethar?". I should say that we get on great togethar and we are good friends. Just last week i was tired and in bad mood. My question is: Does anybody have experiances or girls going cold with them like that? We won't be speaking for a few weeks so why was she so cold with short answers??
BannaBee57 Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 How was she "going cold with you"? You're the one who broke up with her and then turned around and started flirting with her through MSN. She probably just wants you to leave her alone so she can focus on meeting someone new.
Author DunnoWhat Posted September 7, 2008 Author Posted September 7, 2008 I wasn't flirting with her. I just wanted to say goodbye for a while. She suggested breaking up for a while before i did. I just made the first move. She's a warm person.. always friendly with me so I was surprised by her reaction.
BannaBee57 Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Well, she was probably ok with the break when she was calling the shots, but once you suggested it she got upset. Not so hard to understand. She's not going to be very receptive right after you broke up with her through e-mail.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 I doubt dating six times makes you both official. So why did you felt you needed to write her a letter to break up? You should have had a talk with her on whether her coldness stems from her losing interest in you or maybe that you guys needed to go on a break to set things into better perspectives. Either way, you chose to break up, she's entitled to feeling angry about it. You just can't expect her to be your friend if you guys didn't break up mutually.
Author DunnoWhat Posted September 7, 2008 Author Posted September 7, 2008 It's only for 2 or 3 weeks. We were not official.. just dating but good friends. There was attraction there. Maybe it was because I broke it off with her and upset her because she wanted to but i don't think shes the type who has a big ego like that. A few weeks ago we decided to not meet up again but the next night she suggested meeting up sometimes. So thats the sort of relationship it is. I think shes the sort of person who although is nice and friendly and warm etc she keeps her feelings to herself. I couldn't talk with her for various reasons. She understands that and is ok with it.
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