2cold2008 Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 This is the first time in 8 years of marriage that I am having an affair. I have always thought that I would NEVER cheat on my husband and I could have sworn it would never happen. It did. Are you one of these people or have you in some way considered the possibility of having an affair more than once in your life?
bentnotbroken Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Considered it, dismissed the thought, glad I did.
soda Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 This is the first time in 8 years of marriage that I am having an affair. I have always thought that I would NEVER cheat on my husband and I could have sworn it would never happen. It did. Are you one of these people or have you in some way considered the possibility of having an affair more than once in your life? I think everybody considers it, or has the opportunity to do so, but the difference is whether one has the self-esteem not to degrade oneself to stoop to that. I will be flamed because I was the cheated on rather than the cheater, but seriously, cheating is more disgusting than sharing a toothbrush. To be honest, what pushed me to send my wife packing is that the great woman who took a shine to me won't so much as walk in the park with me until I send my cheater away from her kids. There's no good reason to cheat. End the marriage, or end the selfish pleasure trip. You are hurting someone if you do both.
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