sublimegirly Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 recently i have been seeing a ex boyfriend of mine, who i dated about 4 years ago. well in between the 4years he had gotten married and i am now a single mother. so we had not communicated until about a 2 months ago. He is going through a divorce and family issues now. And I am trying to raise a 2 year old. anyways. We are both are have struggles in our life right now. We both argeed that it is the wrong time to get into a relationship. the only thing is i see myself really wanting him in my life, he is a great person/friend. and i dont know if i should bring it up or not.
xxxicklexxx Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Maybe you should leave it until things settle down with him and the divorce hes going through? Have you asked him if hed want another relationship so soon after? You said should you mention it?it sounds like its already been mildly discussed seen as you both came to the conclusion that it was the wrong time to get into a relationship?
jen's mind Posted September 8, 2008 Posted September 8, 2008 I agree that you should let things settle out, particularly with his divorce. If you've already spoken about it he obviously knows that it's on the table. Pushing the issue won't get you anywhere. You've got your hands full with a two-year-old, for sure... it will be helpful to you and your child to be careful about who you bring into your lives and that there's minimal drama. I don't see any disadvantages to waiting awhile and seeing how things settle out in the coming months.
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