Ignorant&Innocent Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 ok let me start this off saying I'm not gay. There is this gay kid on the Cross Country team, I found out he likes me...which was very, very awkward. Anyway...I'm too nice to tell him to leave me alone. He's...disturbed. Anyway he kept asking me stuff like "are you gay?" and stuff like that and I told him I was straight, but he just kept asking me strange questions and telling me things I would rather not have heard...he is persistant I wan't to tell him to back off...but I don't know how to say it without him going crazy or something.
Jilly Bean Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 Give me his number. I'll call him for you. OK, if not that... Just tell him that you are straight, and that his advances are inappropriate and fruitless and you need him to cease and desist hitting on you.
ed-205 Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 I agree with Jilly Bean. You need to tell this guy up front, and on no uncertain terms that he needs to back-off, and you shouldn't have to do it more than once. I'm not sure what you mean by saying he's "disturbed", but if you mean that he "just doesn't get it", and persists anyway, that would probably come under the heading of Sexual Harassment, for what it's worth... Just tell him in a firm but civil manner that you don't swing that way, and you're not interested in discussing it further.
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