Lucky555 Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 So after have a few glasses of a drink i contacted an ex just chatting and nothing more. I am laughing at myself for contacting him since its something i know i shouldn't do but i did do. I felt like i had to get it out of my system but really its not there as i see it...something deeper triggered me to contact him and i think it was due to emotions and alcohol and because he was online. Now i just feel like saying wow that was a huge mistake and i really need to do something else! So yeah anyone else get these impulsive moments? I was clearly not thinking right and i feel like "damn im an idiot" and then i laugh again because it was not rational me it was drunk me. lol
coffeemaker Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 haha yeah. I made the same mistake yesterday after exactly 34 days of no contact. I don't really know why I did it, but I called and left a message. I was working on some stuff and I had the strongest urge to see if she wanted to meet up for coffee. I knew it was a bad idea and I've fought the urge before, but I just couldn't this time around. Anyway, that was last night and still no word. Her silence is actually a good thing for me. Proposing to meet up was just a bad idea. Don't sweat it.
TigerCub Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 Hahaha, I guess I'm not the only one, but what I did should make you feel a whole lot better.. A few weeks ago, after drinks and chatting with my friend about guys and the **** we go through with them, I went home and left a message on this guy's voice mail (I can't really call him an ex since he never wanted to commit to being a boyfriend although we dated for 4 months), so I leave this drunken message telling him that I'm pissed that he's such a jerk and that things coulda been really good between us because we had chemisty but he just wanted to jerk me around and all that... I even went on to ask what more he wanted because I'm nice, and I'm smart and I'm really pretty and that I even get guys honking at me when I'm walking down the street (which isn't a lie, but still...) Come on!... It was just this ridiculous message that I'm sure he saved so that he and his friends could have a listen and laugh at...and I can't blame him, it was a really silly thing to do - but hey at least now you too can laugh and feel better that you didn't mess up THAT bad
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