tll Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 I miss him most in the evenings. I miss cuddling, talking, and just spending quality time with him. It's only been about 5 days since we've seperated so right now when I miss him I just cry. Let it all out and then I pray about it.
RecordProducer Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 I eventually see my students and snap out of it!!! This is great encouragement for all broken-hearted people: to engage your brain in something meaningful and productive. I also find that after a night out with my friends ---even if it was fun, I miss him so deeply, even after a night with another guy , I miss the ex so much more. Same here. Am I healing or am I still in mourning/denial?? Both, healing and still mourning. They are not mutually exclusive. If your question is: have you healed despite of feeling this way, the answer is NO, you haven't - yet.
SoundTribe Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 This is a good thread. I broke up with my ex a month ago, and in the beginning I used to have nightmares that were fairly random but somewhere in the nightmare she would always abandon me. As time progressed the nightmares became less and less vivid, and now I don't even remember the nightmares (but i still know I have them) and I wake up feeling depressed. Oh well. Time heals all wounds.
CherishG Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 the worst for me seems to be at night. it's more quieter at night and I tend to just stay up thinking and thinking. wondering what went wrong, why he did this, how could I not have seen this coming. it's even more painfully harder when our baby daughter (who is barely learning to speak) is starting to ask for him when she's about to go 2 sleep. I end up breaking down and crying...
SRV Posted October 6, 2008 Posted October 6, 2008 CherishG, find strength, it is not easy but you have to seek it at all costs not just for you but your daughter as well. I was in a similar situation as you are, she does not even call to let me know how my daughter is doing, more reason to me that she was a cruel, selfish, mean person that I should have let go of in the first place, a very long time ago. Her mother calls me yesterday afternoon, I did not pick her call and neither did she leave a message and I intend on it staying that way. I take solace in the fact that I know that my daughter is and will be fine despite our differences. the worst for me seems to be at night. it's more quieter at night and I tend to just stay up thinking and thinking. wondering what went wrong, why he did this, how could I not have seen this coming. it's even more painfully harder when our baby daughter (who is barely learning to speak) is starting to ask for him when she's about to go 2 sleep. I end up breaking down and crying...
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