Lizzie60 Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 I knew it .. I knew he would call again.. I told him, about 3 weeks ago that I was breaking up with him.. there is no use .. but he called again today and he wants me to think about it one more time.. he said he really wants to make this work now.. that he's serious about us... But I told him everything I felt about him.. he's a nice guy but I don't want to be committed to anyone. I am not sure what to tell him.. I had three calls (2 phones and 1 email) from guys I haven't seen in months.. they all want to see me again... 2 want 'serious' relationship...
2sunny Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 I knew it .. I knew he would call again.. I told him, about 3 weeks ago that I was breaking up with him.. there is no use .. but he called again today and he wants me to think about it one more time.. he said he really wants to make this work now.. that he's serious about us... But I told him everything I felt about him.. he's a nice guy but I don't want to be committed to anyone. I am not sure what to tell him.. I had three calls (2 phones and 1 email) from guys I haven't seen in months.. they all want to see me again... 2 want 'serious' relationship... in the first paragraph - which guy are you referring to? the young guy? as far as the others... well you and i both know that will carry on as long as you give the green light. i don't see why you shouldn't do things the way you want to Lizzie - since that is the way you have arranged your life and are comfortable with it. no attachments - no commitments. as long as you are up front and honest with the men involved it should be all good.
SnapCracklePop Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 Stick to your instinct. Then get your tango shoes on, and go have some fun. Then come back and tell us all about it.
Shygirl15 Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 in the first paragraph - which guy are you referring to? the young guy? ??? Aren't they all younger than her?
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 5, 2008 Author Posted September 5, 2008 in the first paragraph - which guy are you referring to? the young guy? as far as the others... well you and i both know that will carry on as long as you give the green light. i don't see why you shouldn't do things the way you want to Lizzie - since that is the way you have arranged your life and are comfortable with it. no attachments - no commitments. as long as you are up front and honest with the men involved it should be all good. Yes I'm talking about the younger guy.. well.. he's 36.. the others.. one is about 44-45 and the other one is about 37-38.. but the two last ones I am not interested at all. It's just that tall hottie (East Indian, 6'3) .. I think I will call him back and tell him that if he just wants to see me whenever I WANT.. then it's OK.. other than that.. it would be commitment.. plus there are so much difference with our cultures.. he swears right and left that he doesn't give a cr*p about his culture...
sweetbutcheeky Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 If you don't want a relationship calling these guys would be leading them on, they would think there is a chance. Maybe not date for a while or make sure on date one that the guys isn't looking for a relationship so you don't get back her again. Though that can still backfire, can't control the heart.
Art_Critic Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 I am not sure what to tell him.. You tell him no...you stick with your original plan..
2sunny Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 If you don't want a relationship calling these guys would be leading them on, they would think there is a chance. Maybe not date for a while or make sure on date one that the guys isn't looking for a relationship so you don't get back her again. Though that can still backfire, can't control the heart. huh? are even slightly aware of Lizzie's background? her history doesn't say "relationship" with anyone. she asked if she should call back... i guess you should if you're in the mood for fun.
katherinev87 Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 It's just that tall hottie (East Indian, 6'3) .. I think I will call him back and tell him that if he just wants to see me whenever I WANT.. then it's OK.. other than that.. it would be commitment.. plus there are so much difference with our cultures.. he swears right and left that he doesn't give a cr*p about his culture... Alot of the western-ized East Indians say they don't give a crap about their culture. It's not true....it's in their blood, I swear! I dated two...one of them for two years. His culture ended up being the biggest roadblock we experienced, and it ended up being our undoing.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 5, 2008 Author Posted September 5, 2008 Alot of the western-ized East Indians say they don't give a crap about their culture. It's not true....it's in their blood, I swear! I dated two...one of them for two years. His culture ended up being the biggest roadblock we experienced, and it ended up being our undoing. Yes.. I think you're right.. I doubt him.. I think he's still very much under his parents' influence.. he's still living with them.. that's another 'turn-off'... I don't know.. I think I will call him just to see what's up with him.. he already know what I feel about him.. which is 'nothing'.. I was quite blunt with him the last time we spoke...
xpaperxcutx Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 Lizzie I think you made your point quite clear when you said you were going to break up with him. Considering your lifestyle Liz, I don't think the thing is going to bring you down very much.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 5, 2008 Author Posted September 5, 2008 Lizzie I think you made your point quite clear when you said you were going to break up with him. Considering your lifestyle Liz, I don't think the thing is going to bring you down very much. Yes I know.. It didn't do anything.. I am not in love with him.. this is very 'shallow' of me.. but the only thing I like about this guy is the fact that he is soooo freaken hot.. that when we go out in public, I can see younger women drooling.. it makes me feel good.. .. I should say.. better.. other than that.. not much.. he doesn't 'light my fire' so to speak... I just left him a message..
CaliGuy Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 Force him to move on by not responding to his messages. Sooner or later, he will get the hint.
xpaperxcutx Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 Yes I know.. It didn't do anything.. I am not in love with him.. this is very 'shallow' of me.. but the only thing I like about this guy is the fact that he is soooo freaken hot.. that when we go out in public, I can see younger women drooling.. it makes me feel good.. .. I should say.. better.. other than that.. not much.. he doesn't 'light my fire' so to speak... I just left him a message.. I get what you mean, and it doesn't necessarily make you shallow. You see alot of older guys nowadays getting the younger hotties. So there was nothing wrong with you having dated a younger guy like him.
Author Lizzie60 Posted September 5, 2008 Author Posted September 5, 2008 thanks.. you're sweet.. and 'open-minded' I like that.. I left him a message but he hasn't called back.. what I find weird also.. is that he knows I'm out to work.. but calls me at home and leaves me those 'lovey-dovey' messages.. (I miss you, been thinking a lot about you, yadayada.. ).. like it's easier for him to talk to a machine... Anyway.. I will not see him tonite, even if he calls.. someone else called.. so I will get together with one of my favourite MM that I don't get too see very often. unfortunately ... .. he is one of my favourites..
Lishy Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 How many do you have on the go now Lizzie? You crack me up with your honesty!
Gold Pile Posted September 6, 2008 Posted September 6, 2008 if you told him/them once...you don't need to tell him/them again.
nowhereman82 Posted September 7, 2008 Posted September 7, 2008 Haha can you blame them? You are honestly too sexy for your own good! Got no one to blame but yourself! (just playen) Your personality really comes off strong on LS, sure it's a lot IRL
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