keebud Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I broke up with my girlfreind about 3 weeks ago she ended it but she keeps playing hard to get having me run round everywhere after her, she txts me tellin me she loves me and then starts bein weird again. her mates have told me that she still loves me and doesnt shut up about me and i need to know what i can do about it i still love her and i want her back. i have asked her what she wants and she keeps saying she doesnt know. i need advice badly
BCCA Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I broke up with my girlfreind about 3 weeks ago she ended it but she keeps playing hard to get having me run round everywhere after her, she txts me tellin me she loves me and then starts bein weird again. her mates have told me that she still loves me and doesnt shut up about me and i need to know what i can do about it i still love her and i want her back. i have asked her what she wants and she keeps saying she doesnt know. i need advice badly Give her time and space. Dont respond to text/calls etc anymore, and dont contact her at all. If/when she "knows what she wants", trust me, she'll let you know if its you. I have to be honest, as some one who has heard the 'I dont know what I want, Im just not happy" bit a few times...I think its BS. I think its something people say so that you dont hate them, and they reserve the right to change their minds later. Look at the bottom line: even if she doesnt know exacly what she wants, shes decided for whatever reason that it isnt you right now. She knows she is risking losing you for good, and doesnt seem that interested in getting you back. Go no contact, and let her sort it out herself. Dont be there for her, dont boost her ego, just dissapear.
Final Girl Posted September 9, 2008 Posted September 9, 2008 She might have a lot of things to sort out in her own head - but you have to look after your mental health and your well being. So I agree you shouldn't contact her at all or return any kind of contact she gives you. You have to preserve yourself and your emotions. All these mxed messages will drive you crazy otherwise.
Author keebud Posted September 17, 2008 Author Posted September 17, 2008 every time i ignore her she starts fnin me telling me she loves me i really dont know what to do she told a friend she wants me back the overday
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