rod_in_gtown Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 Ok, so as a follow up to my previous post: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t162866/ While we were "hooking up", I had invited her to the wedding of a good friend (who happens to be a new co-worker), I asked her to be my date and she said she would love to. Right after dinner we went outside and talked about the reasons for ending the "fling" (I can't call it a relationship), we discussed that I knew what I was getting into when we started hooking up (I did) and how I would want to remain friends (I really felt that at the moment). We then went to a nearby park and hung out for a while, played in the swings, talked a bit more and all in all ended up in a good note, and we talked about the wedding. I asked her what she wanted to do about it and she told me that it was my call. I asked her if she still wanted to go and she said that she did as long as I wanted to go with her. Faced with the prospect of going to the wedding alone and still feeling feelings for her I told her I wanted her to go with me as my friend. Soon afterwards, I went home and I sent a message to my friend who's getting married. I told her me and the girl were no longer hooking up but that we might still go to her wedding together. She said "ok, well, she sucks and doesn't know what she's losing.. anyway, there will be lots of single women at my wedding.. so please take *girlname* and hook up with one of my hot teammates" (she's a rower in a local rowing league). Monday came and my friend (wedding girl) came into my office and told me that I would have a better time if I didn't take the girl and went by myself, but that it was totally my call. The wedding is going to be in a very high profile place and I would hate to show up dateless. So ladies, when you go to a wedding and you're single, what are your expectations as far as meeting guys? I'm not so sure I still want to take this girl with me but I don't want to resume contact with her just yet. I've been doing very well not thinking about her but when I do the pit of my stomach hurts a little. And I also don't want to wait until the last minute. I also want to get back something I lent her a couple weeks ago. It's not expensive or rare but I happen to like it.
CaliGuy Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 a. No don't take her. b. Email her and ask her when you can get whatever it is of yours she has.
Krytie TV Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 Yep, blow her off. Getting your things back has nothing to do with the wedding. You have no obligation to someone not interested in a relationship with you.
Star Gazer Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I'm going to a wedding next weekend with a girlfriend. We're each able to bring dates, but we're bringing each other...to scope out the dudes. The single dudes. The dudes there without dates. See where I'm goin' with this?
Author rod_in_gtown Posted September 4, 2008 Author Posted September 4, 2008 I'm going to a wedding next weekend with a girlfriend. We're each able to bring dates, but we're bringing each other...to scope out the dudes. The single dudes. The dudes there without dates. See where I'm goin' with this? LOL, God I love you SG, but you're a greedy one aren't you?? I'm hating the game not the player though
Star Gazer Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 LOL, God I love you SG, but you're a greedy one aren't you?? I'm hating the game not the player though LOL! I can only wish to be a playah... I have no skills in that dept. I'm just waiting for the ONE special guy to really knock my socks off!
Author rod_in_gtown Posted September 4, 2008 Author Posted September 4, 2008 LOL! I can only wish to be a playah... I have no skills in that dept. I'm just waiting for the ONE special guy to really knock my socks off! Well, I'm right here honey, I'm right here!
CaliGuy Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I'm going to a wedding next weekend with a girlfriend. We're each able to bring dates, but we're bringing each other...to scope out the dudes. The single dudes. The dudes there without dates. See where I'm goin' with this? I'm going to a wedding in Nov single (at least for now). Who knows who I will meet there -- or if I'll catch the garter
Ruby Slippers Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I would be way more interested in you as a single guy guest than as a guy guest with date. I say leave her behind and have fun on your own.
Star Gazer Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I'm going to a wedding in Nov single (at least for now). Who knows who I will meet there -- or if I'll catch the garter I can't lie. I'll be diving for that bouquet, even if I have to give my BFF a black eye in the process.
CaliGuy Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 I can't lie. I'll be diving for that bouquet, even if I have to give my BFF a black eye in the process. Pics or BAN FOR LIFE!!!
Author rod_in_gtown Posted September 4, 2008 Author Posted September 4, 2008 Pics or BAN FOR LIFE!!! I second that!
Shygirl15 Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 a. No don't take her. b. Email her and ask her when you can get whatever it is of yours she has. I second this.
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