HeartOnSleeve Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Not sure who is a Sex in the City fan on here...but I feel like I am in the episode called "the Domino effect". Where Big has a heart problem and Carrie goes to take care of him while he sick...he spills his guts that night and then the next morning is back to being "cold" Big. This my friends is where I am with my ex. I leave all contact up to him, and during those nights we spend together things are great and then in the morning it's back to business. Heart "on" ...Heart "off". Any suggestions? It's like he's in then he's out. Meets me for lunch but seems bitter. We have been broken up for 4 months now.
Ronni_W Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 Sorry to say, I think he's using you for sex. It might be that's he's good at making it seem as if he turns his heart on when he gets a hard on (sorry, that was too easy to pass up ) but it could just be a snow job on his part. (TG, I also have some restraint, huh?) As you say, though, "in then out" is all that he's interested in, I think. At lunch, yeah, he would be distracted, disinterested and indifferent. My guess is that he's looking at it as the cost of getting you to show up whenever he wants to hook-up. Maybe you want to consider going SERIOUSLY n/c?
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