masaman Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Hi, This is probably silly, but anyways:) don't usually take the first step, but I figured I send a message to a girl. A really beautiful one. Since she had put a lot of effort in her profile, I figured she wanted something more than just the attention. Started with an icebreaker based on something she wrote in her profile. She complained about the lack of sun. I wrote something silly about being the extra sunshine ...It was actually (or somewhat) funny. She wrote "THAT IS NOT TRUE!!!:)" I wrote something about it being true etc. I also refered to a movie (eternal sunshine in the spotless mind). (Taken out of context) She replied: "little mr sunshine? huh :)" I thought that was a funny response though!! I took a more serious apporach and wrote something about liking her profile, and her of course. She misinterpret (gramatically) my message on purpose writing something like "so you thought I was pretty but not anymore? is that what your saying hehe :)" Wonder if any girl can say something about her apporach. I know answering a question with a question gets you in controle. It could be a flirting technique. Or she is basically saying "not interested"? She could be bs'ing but It really works for me. Strange:)
Trialbyfire Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 In responding with a question to a question, it leaves the line of communication open by requiring a response. To not respond, it seems a bit rude, y'know what I mean?
Author masaman Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 Then I guess someone wants to keep the communication going? I mean ...not responding at all I guess is rude ...but If I got no response at all I would have gotten the message ...the same after one ...or at least two sessions. I usually get formal when I don't want anything more. I usually dont drag things on with mindgames and comebacks!?! Thats just me though
djhall Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Just a girl being coy or flirting or not being sure what to say back. Either way, the return of the question is to get you to keep talking to her. If she says "thanks for the compliment," that could be the end of the converstaion or she could just get, "your welcome" as a response. On the other hand, if she answers you with a question then you have a reason to reply back to her and she can keep the contact going. If the question is "so you thought I was pretty but not anymore? is that what your saying?" she is pretty much begging you to compliment her and tell her how beautiful you think she is!
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