yarisgirl30 Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Hi All Don't know if anyone can help or give me any advice but here it goes. I have been seeing this guy since Febuary and yhings are going great. He told me from the get go that he was still in touch with his ex as they live in the same town. I was fine with that as it was not affecting me in any way. But as soon as she found out about me she has not stopped calling and texting him. it is starting to become a problem for me because when we do see each other his phone is always going off. We see each other every weekend as we live an hour apart. He calls me and texts me most nights. He swears that nothing is going on and I do deleive him. Things came to a head last weekend though when at 3am hiss phone went off. It was her sending him a message (which he showed me) She then went on to call him 4 times and text 3 the last message said "I know it is late and I am sorry but I just can't handle you been with another women. I am sorry for my behaviour the other night but my emotions are all over the place" He had been out the pervious thursday with work mates and had bumped into her. He told me about it the next day. They were broken up a year before we met. She is really starting to get to me. I have a child from a previous realtionship and they get on very well. Also we have just found out that we are pregnant. Happy news all round. He is moving in with me soon and we hope to become a family of sorts I guess my question is has anyone ever had this kind of problem and if so what have you done? I guess she is just not over him yet and I do have a bit of sympthy for her but if this carries on much longer (late night calls and texts then I just do not know what to do) Any help and advice would be greatfull.
Amorabunda Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 He could: (a) block her number; or (b) change phone numbers; or © at least turn his phone off when you go to bed. She is, after all, an "ex". HTH
JohnnyBlaze Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 First, congratulations on the impending kid! Secondly, talk to him. Tell him what you just told us. After all, she is his ex, which makes it HIS problem to deal with. Unfortunately, any action taken by you will just make you look jealous and paranoid (of which neither appear to be the case here). Tell him that it's not about you suspecting him of anything, but that she's not letting go of a dead relationship, and that it's bothering you. She doesn't want to let go of him, and you got in this relation to be with him, not him and her.
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