TheUnmasked Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Okay, i have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for three months. Just the past one week or so, we started getting a little more distant, and it seemed like she would always wait for me to make the first move. So I called her up today and told her about it, and we started talking, and she told me about how she was tired of chasing me. And I think about it now, she's put up with this for three months. For example, sometimes I may start to say something, and when she asks, I wouldn't tell her; I would have something and wouldn't want to show her, and she keeps asking, and I never tell her. I may know something and won't want to tell her. Basically, I made her chase me over and over again for different things. And she put up with it, and is finally sick of it. And I know I was wrong in this situation. Now my question is, since tomorrow I will be talking to her about it, how can I let her know I will fix my wrongs about making her chase me all the time, without giving in to all her wants. Basically, making a girl chase you in MODERATION is good, but not 100%. I just want some tips on what I can say and/or do to go back to making her chase in moderation, not in full like I've been doing.
Star Gazer Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 It's obvious: you have to chase her too. You're not. Start.
Tomcat33 Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 sometimes I may start to say something, and when she asks, I wouldn't tell her; I would have something and wouldn't want to show her, and she keeps asking, and I never tell her. I may know something and won't want to tell her. Basically, I made her chase me over and over again for different things Why would you that? what could possibly move you to do that? Sorry I am trying to make sense of that and can't figure it out
Javelin Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Just tell her that you'll stop playing games! and please remember not to confuse the poor girl!
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