Kamille Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Mr. Twonight-stand came down to my city for a few days and... well... nice guy but... I'm so glad he's gone! The dude would talk on and on and on and hardly ever ask questions about me. And then, when I would manage to squeeze a word in, his immediate answer would be: yeah but... As in: I like brocoli soup No but if you make brocoli soup you need to use a blender to puree the soup and then you have to wash the blender. I bet you hadn't thought about that eh? it felt like he was always trying to teach me something. Like he always needed to assert he knew better then me. It got really annoying. Why would a guy do that? Ah well. At least he was a great lover.
Star Gazer Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 No but at least he's not making you feel intellectually inferior. I mean at least with this guy you get to "get you some" and then have him leave and still feel good about yourself. I bet you hadn't thought about that?
Jilly Bean Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Why do some guys have to ruin it for themselves by talking?
Author Kamille Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 No but at least he's not making you feel intellectually inferior. Haha. Very funny Star. At least one of us got giddy this weekend. But it wasn't me. No but now that he's gone I think it's funny and even cute but while it was happening I had to take deep breaths and tell myself: it's ok, he is a good lover. I'm trying to figure out whether it's a personality trait or something in our interactions that made him "No but..." all the time.
Author Kamille Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 Why do some guys have to ruin it for themselves by talking? Wise words JB.
Jilly Bean Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Wise words JB. I'm having bumper stickers made. Shall I put you down for a dozen? Seriously - well, at least he's made it easy to let go. Still, funny how conversation can ruin an (otherwise) lovely 2-nighter.
Ariadne Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I bet you hadn't thought about that eh? Well, that's good though. Now you don't have to be hang up on that guy.
marlena Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 it's ok, he is a good lover. So, just accept him as that, a good lover, and enjoy it while it lasts! That simple!
rod_in_gtown Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Why do some guys have to ruin it for themselves by talking? That's why I just sit there and look pretty :lmao::lmao:
Author Kamille Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 I'm having bumper stickers made. Shall I put you down for a dozen? Make it a couple hundred. Next time I'm in his city I will plaster the town. No but at least he was otherwise very attractive. Well, that's good though. Now you don't have to be hang up on that guy. I'm ashamed to admit this but he did make me miss my ex.
Author Kamille Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 So, just accept him as that, a good lover, and enjoy it while it lasts! That simple! Not but he might talk. I think it best to cut him loose.
Ariadne Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I'm ashamed to admit this but he did make me miss my ex. Well, your ex was close but no cigar. Still, that was pretty close enough.
Jilly Bean Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 That's why I just sit there and look pretty :lmao::lmao: Shhhhhhhhhh. You're talking too much again. Don't ruin it! K - I wouldn't ever run the risk of him talking again. That is, unless you want him to tell you in detail how your menstrual cramps REALLY feel.
marlena Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Not but he might talk. I think it best to cut him loose Gag him and just make love to him. Or cut him lose if you want more.
Star Gazer Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I'm having bumper stickers made. Shall I put you down for a dozen? No but I would like a button that I can wear on my next date.
jerbear Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Hey OJB, get me a button; I'll wear it on one of my dates. Gives me a good reason to be quiet....
Trialbyfire Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 Gag him and just make love to him. Or cut him lose if you want more. I was going to suggest a bondage game that included a gag. Win/win!
djhall Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 He's insecure and thinks he has to impress you? I'll stop talking now
Author Kamille Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 He's insecure and thinks he has to impress you? I'll stop talking now No but then wouldn't he at least try to get to know me by asking questions?
Star Gazer Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I was going to suggest a bondage game that included a gag. Win/win! No but then she'd still have to hear the mumbling, "Nu buuuh da uuu noo duut..."
Trialbyfire Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 No but then she'd still have to hear the mumbling, "Nu buuuh da uuu noo duut..." New game, bondage with gag for him and iPod for her!
Author Kamille Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 New game, bondage with gag for him and iPod for her! That works! I'll tell him it helps me get in the mood!
Trialbyfire Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 That works! I'll tell him it helps me get in the mood! The beat goes on baby!
djhall Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 No but then wouldn't he at least try to get to know me by asking questions? This is a man were talking about, so no, that would require social skills. Insecure man: "Damn she is so out of my league... better impress her with how great _I_ am"... blah, blah, blah... "You don't want to see me again? Didn't you hear how great I am?"
jerbear Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 boom boom boom boom Hon! the neighbors are at it again!
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