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...is the feeling of meeting someone new and hitting off.

and maybe smiling from ear to ear.

and not forcing conversation.

and the butterflies!!!!!!

and the first kiss

and the hugs

and the body rush

and the first time you have sex

and random messages throughout your day

and thinking of you phone calls

and laughter

and realizing what you have in common

and making plans

and surprises

AND FALLING IN LOVE AGAIN.

WE ALL GET TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN. and personally....i cannot wait!!!

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Little steps... I'm just looking forward to porn being interesting again :laugh:

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Little steps... I'm just looking forward to porn being interesting again :laugh:

 

haha. I needed a good laugh! Thanks!:D

sedgwick Established Member

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I wish it were possible for me to feel those things again. My ex completely ruined my ability to ever trust or love again, and proved to me once and for all that I am not worthy of love. But hey, at least I have more time to spend with my work, right? I just have to find some way to reach people through that instead of dreaming of a relationship that will never happen.

 

I'm trying to figure out how to be happy alone, because I know I've done this love thing for the last time. I'm trying to convince myself that I'm lucky to be able to love someone this much, even if the person I love chooses not to speak to me. At least I get to feel it, even if I don't get to know what it's like to have it returned.

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I'm looking forward to being in a relationship as a WHOLE person for the first time.

Not holding myself back, not lying, not playing games, and knowing I don't need the person :)

 

I wish it would happen really quickly (even though I'm not ready) cuz I miss being in love!! And being loved back!!!!! :bunny:

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ahhhchoo- thats a great comment. anything that makes me laugh out loud should be acknowledged.

sedgwick- why would you think you're not worthy of love? have some confidence in yourself. everyone deserves to be loved. and something tells me you deserve better than your douchebag ex that hurt you. why do you think this is the last time for love for you?

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Because he broke my trust. I told him at the very beginning that it was a HUGE deal for me to trust someone, and that if I couldn't trust him, he should let me know right then. He told me I could, and that he loved me. And then one day, almost a year in, I just suddenly wasn't a fiddle player and he had to go, and that was the last time I ever saw him. I've tried to make contact and been completely ignored. I will never, ever, EVER trust anyone again. I couldn't if I wanted to. And if I were worthy of love, he'd have stayed.

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Because he broke my trust. I told him at the very beginning that it was a HUGE deal for me to trust someone, and that if I couldn't trust him, he should let me know right then. He told me I could, and that he loved me. And then one day, almost a year in, I just suddenly wasn't a fiddle player and he had to go, and that was the last time I ever saw him. I've tried to make contact and been completely ignored. I will never, ever, EVER trust anyone again. I couldn't if I wanted to. And if I were worthy of love, he'd have stayed.

 

Sedgwick, you know, I've been reading your posts and I wish you'd feel better about yourself! It's not YOU that there is something wrong with! There is nothing wrong with you that made him "not love you."

 

All of our actions, our decisions, have to do with ourselves and never really the other person. For some reason, your ex wasn't able to be in a relationship with you, and that is NO fault of your own; it has to do with his own inability to love and commit, not your shortcomings.

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...is the feeling of meeting someone new and hitting off.

and maybe smiling from ear to ear.

and not forcing conversation.

and the butterflies!!!!!!

and the first kiss

and the hugs

and the body rush

and the first time you have sex

and random messages throughout your day

and thinking of you phone calls

and laughter

and realizing what you have in common

and making plans

and surprises

AND FALLING IN LOVE AGAIN.

WE ALL GET TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN. and personally....i cannot wait!!!

 

Thanks for this! Sometimes my hope falters that I'll experience all of this again -- but with the *right guy*.

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I think its one of the only things getting me through this crap. I love LOVE. i want to be in love again. and not the kind i feel right now. Not the unrequited kind. That sucks. i want true genuine love. where i dont need to force it, or feel like ive got to prove im lovable. it just IS.

and right now i think i feel really low. really questioning myself and my ability to be loved again. but im getting back to the place where i feel i can be. not that i have doubts in myself- i know i can give. i never stopped giving love, even to my ex and the ones before. its my ego right now that feels like no ones going to give love to me again. at least no one better. and i just want to be able to feel it again. from someone i feel is not settling. i dont want to settle for any old love.

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...is the feeling of meeting someone new and hitting off.

and maybe smiling from ear to ear.

and not forcing conversation.

and the butterflies!!!!!!

and the first kiss

and the hugs

and the body rush

and the first time you have sex

and random messages throughout your day

and thinking of you phone calls

and laughter

and realizing what you have in common

and making plans

and surprises

AND FALLING IN LOVE AGAIN.

WE ALL GET TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN. and personally....i cannot wait!!!

 

 

 

thank you for posting that. i know right now i'm not able to read that and get excited..if anything i feel sick thinking about dating again, but i know that in time, as i read it again and again (i'm going to create a similar list for myself), i will start to feel more excited about the prospect of meeting someone with whom i will get that far with.....

 

thanks. :)

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I think its one of the only things getting me through this crap. I love LOVE. i want to be in love again. and not the kind i feel right now. Not the unrequited kind. That sucks. i want true genuine love. where i dont need to force it, or feel like ive got to prove im lovable. it just IS.

and right now i think i feel really low. really questioning myself and my ability to be loved again. but im getting back to the place where i feel i can be. not that i have doubts in myself- i know i can give. i never stopped giving love, even to my ex and the ones before. its my ego right now that feels like no ones going to give love to me again. at least no one better. and i just want to be able to feel it again. from someone i feel is not settling. i dont want to settle for any old love.

 

i feel the same. i'm SO SCARED though that i'm just going to get hurt again. rob was the second boyfriend i actually LOVED and it ended in heartache and tears as well. i really don't want to go through this again.

i think i would have never wished these last two years with him if i'd known how i'd feel right now.

i love loving someone and i love being loved. but the feeling of hurt seems to be a much stronger emotion than love and makes me wonder if it's all worth it.

Mending1985 Established Member

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I had been thinking so negatively about love until I read this thread, and it started to make me look forward to falling in love with someone new, and dating etc AND then I got asked out by someone yesterday! And I like him yay!

 

HopeDiesLast you must be my good luck charm!! :D

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...is the feeling of meeting someone new and hitting off.

and maybe smiling from ear to ear.

and not forcing conversation.

and the butterflies!!!!!!

and the first kiss

and the hugs

and the body rush

and the first time you have sex

and random messages throughout your day

and thinking of you phone calls

and laughter

and realizing what you have in common

and making plans

and surprises

AND FALLING IN LOVE AGAIN.

WE ALL GET TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN. and personally....i cannot wait!!!

 

Thanks for posting this. Reading this really hit me with something that I really needed for the past 4 months that I've been single. I can't wait to experience all of that again, and there's no rushing it. It'll happen to all of us.

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mending- i hope i am your lucky charm. :) i hope things work out for you. and i hope the good karma bounces back to me!

Saros- you're def. right. theres no rushing it....im personally impatient and i wish it would happen soon :)

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