Welshy123 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I've recently got engaged, to my first love, a guy i've been with for the last seven years. Found out today that he had a hotmail account that i didn't know about. Turns out he has been chatting to women online, cybersex and webcams for at least the last year. I feel so hurt and angry, more because of the lying than anything. Just dont know how we can move on from this point. Anyone been in a simialr situation?
TigerCub Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I'm sorry you're hurting. Did you confront him about it? How did you find out about this email account?
Author Welshy123 Posted September 3, 2008 Author Posted September 3, 2008 Yeah I confronted him, at first he denyed it but then admitted what had been going on. So i supose thats a start. How I found out? he'd been using my laptop to look at social networking sites and hadnt logged out. So when I went to use it, I saw he had a message in his inbox and read it. It was a reply to a message he had sent a girl the night before...telling her to email him on the "other" msn address. Kinda wish now that i'd just logged out of his account. But then I didnt think ne thing off it, cause he often reads my emails for me, iwhen i'm out of the house ect. Didnt think we had secrets.
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