movies Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 So, ive been with the girl i love now for almost 9 years. she recently decided to take a break from us. I was shocked. it was kinda out of the blue. I dont have reason to belive there is anyone else involved. she says she need time to herself, that i have been selfish at times cuz i work alot and dont give her the attention she wants. i will admit, this was a problem but am currently resolving it. she says she wants time to herself, just to worry about making herself happy as ive slowly pushed her away over the years. we agreed that we are just both really good friends right now and want to talk and c eachother but not on a regular basis like before. its now been a bit over a week with NC and about 2 weeks since the break. What do i do? she says she still loves me and wants it to work but isnt sure if it will. I know my mistakes, im resolving them, but how can I show her im trying to make the change for the better? i want to call or text her but am afraid as I know she just wants time to herself. shes got alot on mer plate right now with school and work and moving out of her parents house soon in a few months. any help is appreciated. Just unsure what i should do to get her back.
foxh1234 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 So, ive been with the girl i love now for almost 9 years. she recently decided to take a break from us. I was shocked. it was kinda out of the blue. I dont have reason to belive there is anyone else involved. she says she need time to herself, that i have been selfish at times cuz i work alot and dont give her the attention she wants. i will admit, this was a problem but am currently resolving it. she says she wants time to herself, just to worry about making herself happy as ive slowly pushed her away over the years. we agreed that we are just both really good friends right now and want to talk and c eachother but not on a regular basis like before. its now been a bit over a week with NC and about 2 weeks since the break. What do i do? she says she still loves me and wants it to work but isnt sure if it will. I know my mistakes, im resolving them, but how can I show her im trying to make the change for the better? i want to call or text her but am afraid as I know she just wants time to herself. shes got alot on mer plate right now with school and work and moving out of her parents house soon in a few months. any help is appreciated. Just unsure what i should do to get her back. She wants space, you have to give it to her. Back off and disappear for awhile. Let her think without you around. If she wants you, she will miss you and let you know. The worst thing you can do is hang around. Work on yourself and keep busy and let her go for now. If she really loves you and wants you back, nothing will stop her from letting you know. Good Luck
Author movies Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 So, i should just keep on with this NC? i really want it to work out and want to prove to her the changes im making. I also wonder how long it might take. Im still living my life, but i want her to be a part of it still. I know she wants it to work, or so she says.
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