What do i do i messed up big

[Arsenic_Child]

So, Me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago as of yesterday. We broke up due to trust issues, basically heres the back story http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t161639/

 

After the break up we didn't really contact each other that often, but when we did the conversations would go on for awhile.

 

About 3 weeks after the break up i went to a party and got really drunk, and there was this girl there who was friends with Me, Her and another close friend of mine and hers but mostly hers, and the girl at the party told me that My Ex thought i cheated on her and Her Friend Claimed they had proof about it. As the night went on I continued to drink and remember talking to The girl at the party towards the end of the night thought what we talked about was a blur, someone during the night told me that my ex was going to leave me for someone else, but wasn't sure if it was her who said it but i knew it was said.

 

3 days later went buy and i thought about it, and got pissed off about it and confronted her about it over the phone. I told her that someone said that she thought i cheated on her and her friend had proof, as well as the whole shes leaving me for someone else thing.

 

The next day i get a call from my Ex's friend who was the one who "claimed" to have proof and he confronted me about what was said because my EX told him. He asked me Who said what, i told him im not giving any names but this is what i heard. He told me he knew who said it and wants to see if ill be honest and tell him. So i did, he also asked me if i was 100% sure about it because hes going to confront the girl at the party about it. I told him i was. Even thought i did lie i was 100% sure she said the whole cheating thing but only like 70% sure about the whole leaving me for another, but i assumed it was her because she was the only one i talked to about the relationship that night. The only reason why i told him yes i was 100% sure was because i felt like i had every one against me and my back was against the wall.

 

The next night the girl from the party called me and asked me to tell her what was said. I came clean and everyone was pissed at me even my ex

The worst part is, i found out that my ex was starting to Trust me again, and that i was sincere and would never lie to her again. it was never my intention to lie or hurt anyone, i just felt like any thing i did everyone would get pissed at me.

 

 

I just dont know what to do at this point

[nowhereman82]

Sounds like a bunch of High School drama.....brush it off. Bunch of two faced friends in High School.

 

All you can do is beat the dudes ass that claimed you cheated when you didn't. He ruined you relationship and now your ex is your ex and no matter what you do won't believe you....so might as well kick the dudes as and make it clear to everyone and him you don't deal with people making lies against you.

[Arsenic_Child]

no its not like that, hes my good friend too, and he has every right to suspect cheating, if you read my link in my post you'd understand