toni Posted August 14, 2003 Posted August 14, 2003 I confronted my boyfriend (who i am livin in with) about this girl who kept on texting him. He told me it's just one pathetic gal who's carzy over him and he doesn't know her. One day, i decided to text this girl and ask her why she kept on bothering my guy and she told me that my bf is her ex and that they recently broke up,, to think that my boyfriend and I are together for almost a year! She even told me that there was this time where she rejected my call to my boyfriend because they were together i my bf's room! I'm confused! I don't want to lose this guy. I still want to be with him for the rest of my life. I don't know how to confront him bcoz I'm scared he might choose this girl.
Nazima Posted August 14, 2003 Posted August 14, 2003 You think your bf is lying to you, cheating on you and making a fool of you, and you want to spend the rest of your life with a person like that? I don't get it, don't you have any self-respect at all? Unless he can prove that he's not lying or cheating, I would dump this guy like a hot potato! How can you build a lasting relationship with someone you can't trust? If he's the type of person you're saying he is, and you stay with him, you will only end up being totally miserable.
BklynGuy Posted August 15, 2003 Posted August 15, 2003 Dump this guy like he's a bad habit. You deserve better than a cheater! It will hurt a lot but don't let him think he can get away with what he's doing. You deserve better so move on with your life.
jalexy Posted August 15, 2003 Posted August 15, 2003 i find it totally entertaining after being in a sort of similar situation before, myself, that this guy could say he never knew of her- and that she is "crazy". if i were you, i would ask her questions to double check that hes a lying bastard and then i would leave him, once you know. trust your gut because he is going to lie and lie and lie. why? because he can.
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