mortensorchid Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 In dealing with my disappointment over the recent Cake Man situation, I posted a blog how I feel on my MySpace page. Later that night I got a text message from someone that sent me through the roof. Earlier this year, I had connected with someone who I have simply begun to refer to as The Sociopath. He did nothing but critisize me and analyse me during the time I knew him for a few weeks. I decided that since I already have a father and I already have a shrink, I was just going to close the book on this and move on. He STILL tries to contact me through Instant Messenger and the occational text message. I had tried ignoring him, but finally I had had enough of him when he sent that hilarious philosophical stream about what happiness really means. I called him back and leaned into him. Me : "I got a text message from this number." Sociopath : "Yeah, this is W----" M : "Oh I KNOW you're not trying to still contact me after all these months!" S : "No, you called ME." M : "You sociopath! Stay the f--- away from me!" I hung up on him. I've been stalked before, and I know the best thing to do in the situation is just to ignore the person. Tell them no once, walk away, and ignore them. But he made me angry that day. I was dealing with some genuine feelings of sadness and disappointment and he thinks he can muscle in on me. Hopefully he's gotten the message by now and won't think twice about doing this again.
underpants Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 You like the attention of being potentially stalked. Perhaps you should re evaluate you attaction radar? Although this may eliminate the would be stalkers in your life.
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 What I don't understand about you, is why you invite drama in your life, and then complain about it. Don't want comments on your MS blogs? Make them private. Don't want to get IM's from people you don't want to hear from? Block them. Don't want to engage in texts from people you don't want to hear from? Don't respond! Thing is, he wasn't stalking you - no more than the guy who worked in a place you go for pizza was stalking you when you went in for a slice. You engage with people, and then whack them when the game gets tedious for you. I am sorry you have been feeling blue, Orchid, but it's your choice if you want to close yourself off to these people or not.
vonerik012 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Sending a text message or im is stalking?
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