Star Gazer Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I just had one of the best dates ever, and had to share. It was with a guy I knew when I was in law school - he found me on MS. We were pretty wild back then, and had some fun stories to share about what we've been up to for the past five years. We had a drink, then went to dinner. Laughed the whole time, great conversation, it was like those 5 years never passed but at the same time we're "all grown up" and more mature...and we shared a fantastic kiss at the end. YOWZA. He's so sexy. So hot. Just enough confidence and uncertainty. These are the butterflies I've been waiting for...but not the scary kind. These are the gooooooooood kind. Who knows what will come of it, but it sure was fun!!! Oh my, he's so yummy.
underpants Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Well good. Just feed those butterflies (yours and his) with some honest dialog. You seem very upfront here but I do wonder if you hold back a bit in real life. I know I do. If a little issue presents itself, rather then letting it stew, just acknowlege it and welcome a response. Take him in kind to task (not district attorney task) stay kind ....and welcome what his response may be. Good relationships are a give and take of mutual respect. Feel him out for that. It can do nothing but good for you, even if he may not be up for it. I'm rooting for you.
Author Star Gazer Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 I'm not thinking beyond tonight, to be honest. No expectations. I'd love to see him again though. I'm just THRILLED that I still have it in me to WANT to rip someone's clothes off...haha. Oh my, he's so sexy...and he makes me laugh...
flc Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 That's great, always wonderful to come back from a date feeling good. Now take a deep breath, relax and see where it goes. Good luck
jerbear Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 good luck as the other posters mentioned. Relax and let see where this one leads.
grogster Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Good news , woman. You're long overdue. Plus, as we know, lawyers make better lovers!
Author Star Gazer Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 Good news , woman. You're long overdue. Plus, as we know, lawyers make better lovers! Ain't that the truth!!!
LionLover Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Why why why do you insist on messing with my head??!! I just don't understand you at alllllllllllllllllllll
Art_Critic Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Congrats SG...You deserve some happiness... Looks like you got your butterflies The kiss is ooooohhhh soooo important....
Author Star Gazer Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 Why why why do you insist on messing with my head??!! I just don't understand you at alllllllllllllllllllll Whatever do you mean, my little butternut squash? Congrats SG...You deserve some happiness... Looks like you got your butterflies The kiss is ooooohhhh soooo important.... Thanks, Art. Yeah, the kiss is soooo important.
stefspets Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Congrats and good luck on your future dates with him (I'm sure there will be!).
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Is this the eye-level kisser? If so, you've determined that you can change your mind while going through the dating process. 'Grats!
melodymatters Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Sounds fun ! And I know what you mean by just being happy that you CAN find someone else attractive ! Hopefully, he's as good as he sounds and you don't see any red flags ! Keep us posted !
Author Star Gazer Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 Is this the eye-level kisser? If so, you've determined that you can change your mind while going through the dating process. 'Grats! Nope. Different guy. This one is TALL, dark and handsome and oh-so-very-manly..... Funny how two guys from my distant past found me on MS though, ain't it?
Author Star Gazer Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 Sounds fun ! And I know what you mean by just being happy that you CAN find someone else attractive ! That's honestly all I was hoping for. I was gettin' worried...
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Nope. Different guy. This one is TALL, dark and handsome and oh-so-very-manly..... Funny how two guys from my distant past found me on MS though, ain't it? Aaaaahhhhh, stop confusing me! Too many men, not enough time! I'm glad you found someone who does it for you. That kick-arse chemistry is irreplaceable!
so gutted Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 wow some positive news on here - thats a first. This is how it should be.
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