frenchgirl Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I think A2M and snowballing are rather tame in today's standards. I had a friend who once found a porn tape of his mom and jerked off to it. Now THAT's unconventional!
Sks Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I think A2M and snowballing are rather tame in today's standards. I had a friend who once found a porn tape of his mom and jerked off to it. Now THAT's unconventional! That is beyond unconventional, that's hilarious in so many ways.
jerbear Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 You know guys and gals. Some acts can be done in the shower if sanitary conditions concern you. You get two things done, sex and a after sex shower + drying, can't beat that. Till round 2 & 3 which usually happens after the shower.
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Both acts are disgusting to me personally but whatever rocks someone else's boat! I will admit that if I found out an SO enjoys it, I would be exiting stage left, particularly being asked to indulge in it. There's no way any fecal matter or third party sperm will ever get close to my face, nevermind pass my lips.
Jersey Shortie Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Well I guess I am less politically correct on this issue. And I don't think being judgemental about sexuality is wrong or even judgmental for that matter. It's a matter of opinion just like the death penalty, abortion, or the war. We have this weird misconception that we are suppose to be accepting of anything sexual, others want to do otherwise we are prudes, that we don't even extend to other areas of life. We have threads on here about being being judged for height and weight and how that's okay, but judging someone if they want put their cock from your butt to your mouth is insensitive? Come on. I am not of the mindframe that everything people want to do is okay. And I am far from a prude. But I do think certain sexual acts are purposely meant to be degrading and are about power. What about a man putting putting his cock from a woman's ass into her mouth, isn't meant to be someone degrading? I think porn as made these acts more normal. Do you think 50 years ago people were doing snowballing and A2M like the amount of people that today might do it? I certainly don't think so. I think porn has normalized these things. I mentioned on another thread that I never use to have guys ask me if they could finish on my face, recently that seems to be something alot of men like. And I do think it's a power trip to have a girl kneel before you while a man finishes off on another person face. I also think that it's the influence of porn that makes these things more normal. The question is does it really bring two people closer or is that a smoke screen? And how does seeing these kind of etremely intimate acts and easily preceived degrading acts on film change the persceptions of men and women and of men towards women and vice versa. Are people really all that surprised by the anger between the sexes?
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 JS, I doubt it's "normal" for average people to indulge in either act. In order for snowballing to be normal, this would mean that everyone indulges in threesomes or multi-somes. If you were to take a poll and everyone on LS were to answer honestly, you might be surprised how many haven't indulged in this. Of course, some have indulged, but not necessarily to the level of snowballing. I also believe that even fewer people have indulged in A2M/ATM. How many people do you know in real life are willing to eat real human poop? Both are fetishes v. standard sexual practices.
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 JS, I doubt it's "normal" for average people to indulge in either act. In order for snowballing to be normal, this would mean that everyone indulges in threesomes or multi-somes. I think you're grossly misinformed on what snowballing really is, Trial. lol It doesn't involve "third party" sperm, as you put. And Jersey - I agree with you - certain "new" sexual practices are very much more in the mainstream as sexually open-minded people are doing this, and a lot more...
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I think you're grossly misinformed on what snowballing really is, Trial. lol It doesn't involve "third party" sperm, as you put. And Jersey - I agree with you - certain "new" sexual practices are very much more in the mainstream as sexually open-minded people are doing this, and a lot more... My understanding of snowballing is the oral passing of sperm from one party to another, where each time it happens, more fluid is added to it. If this is inaccurate, since I don't indulge in fetish acts, perhaps you need to rectify my lack of knowledge.
Shygirl15 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I honestly have no idea what snowballing and A2M is. Can someone shed some light please?
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 My understanding of snowballing is the oral passing of sperm from one party to another, where each time it happens, more fluid is added to it. If this is inaccurate, since I don't indulge in fetish acts, perhaps you need to rectify my lack of knowledge. Yes, apparently I do. Wikipedia isn't always the proper answer to lifes more pressing issues. I think most people who responded to this meant it in a HETEROSEXUAL ONE ON ONE context, Trial. So, specifically, this means when a man ejaculates in his gf's mouth, they then share a kiss afterwards, and therefore, share his cum. "Fetish act". Funny girl.
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I honestly have no idea what snowballing and A2M is. Can someone shed some light please? LOL. Gather 'round, kids! See above for snowballing. A2M = ass to mouth. Practice in which a man takes his c*ck out of a woman's ass (that he had been screwing) and then finishes in her mouth. You see it a lot in porn lately, but IMO, it's too unsanitary to implement IRL.
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Yes, apparently I do. Wikipedia isn't always the proper answer to lifes more pressing issues. I think most people who responded to this meant it in a HETEROSEXUAL ONE ON ONE context, Trial. So, specifically, this means when a man ejaculates in his gf's mouth, they then share a kiss afterwards, and therefore, share his cum. "Fetish act". Funny girl. I didn't get my definition from wikipedia. Perhaps you also need to do some looking up as to the full definition of snowballing, Jill... I suspect your definition is some form of amendment to the original definition. Think what happens with a snowball. There's a growth pattern to a snowball, hence the group environment. A mouthful of sperm can only grow if it's added to...
Jersey Shortie Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 JS, I doubt it's "normal" for average people to indulge in either act. Well I would hope so but from my experience, men claim they aren't influenced by porn yet sex seems to have become more porn-like. Such as the ejaculating on a girls face. I never use to have that as a request, and the past couple guys I dated all wanted to do that. I just wonder how long before these other activities do become the norm.
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I didn't get my definition from wikipedia. Perhaps you also need to do some looking up as to the full definition of snowballing, Jill... I suspect your definition is some form of amendment to the original definition. Think what happens with a snowball. There's a growth pattern to a snowball, hence the group environment. A mouthful of sperm can only grow if it's added to... Google search? Well then Trial, why don't you ask the OP what his definition was of snowballing when he started this thread. I do believe he meant it just as I wrote it and as most people in the heterosexual community understand it to be...
Shygirl15 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Ah, thanks JB. Need to watch more porno I think..
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Google search? Well then Trial, why don't you ask the OP what his definition was of snowballing when he started this thread. I do believe he meant it just as I wrote it and as most people in the heterosexual community understand it to be... Jill, just admit you jumped my arse from ignorance, and we can move on. Snowballing is known as what I mentioned within the hetero community as well...
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Jill, just admit you jumped my arse from ignorance, and we can move on. Snowballing is known as what I mentioned within the hetero community as well... No, why don't you admit once and for all that you DO not know everything in the world, even though you consistently like everyone to think you do, and THEN we can move on? Because you are misinformed on this issue and the general context that everyone took it on this thread, dearie. Except you, apparently. lol Again - ask the OP what his intention was, or are you just afraid he will echo what I wrote and you will continue to be *gasp* outted as being wrong? lol. Shygirl - lol. Well, only if it makes you more informed.
nicki Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I have noticed more this idea of "anything goes" and "be free" kind of crap going on in dating. More men seem to want what they see in pornos. Over the past few years, I've had more sexually deviant men call me "prude" when I am anything but that. I'm wild and passionate by anyone's standards. In my experience, the whole "prude" thing is just one guy trying to control me and make me do something I don't want to do. That's degrading. It's one thing to say, "Hey, what do you think of this whole A2M thing. Is it anything you would want us to try? I have to admit I'm curious about it, but kinda freaked out too." That's respectful and one can gauge the other's interest level and back out of the conversation if they seem turned off. But, it's quite another thing to expect a sexual partner to do A2M or snowballing as a regular part of sex, and if they don't to call them a "prude." I think as long as both partners WANT to do something and don't feel pressured, it's okay. But let's understand this is beyond the scope of most normal relationships....and should be treated as a novelty, not a regularity like some guys want women to think...
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 But, it's quite another thing to expect a sexual partner to do A2M or snowballing as a regular part of sex, and if they don't to call them a "prude." Well, I think if anyone is calling you names in bed for your willingness OR unwillingness to do something, you probably shouldn't be with them at all. Bottom line, as you pointed out, Nicki, whatever goes between consenting adults is acceptable, but if your views of what is acceptable are divergent, then perhaps new alliances should be formed.
Trialbyfire Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 No, why don't you admit once and for all that you DO not know everything in the world, even though you consistently like everyone to think you do, and THEN we can move on? Because you are misinformed on this issue and the general context that everyone took it on this thread, dearie. Except you, apparently. lol Again - ask the OP what his intention was, or are you just afraid he will echo what I wrote and you will continue to be *gasp* outted as being wrong? lol. Shygirl - lol. Well, only if it makes you more informed. Jill, I think the most important thing in the world for you is to be right! Do some research before jumping peoples' arses. Realistically speaking any term can have multiple definitions.
nicki Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I'm sorry, "sexually deviant" sounded rather judgmental. It just seemed like the guys who pushed for these kinds of things against my wishes were controlling and only viewed me as a sexual object. You don't degrade someone you care about. I might like tying my boyfriend up, but I won't do it if I had a feeling he didn't want to do it....I want to make a man feel like more, not less... And I want a guy who gives that back to me.
StartingOver07 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 This thread cracks me up. In my experience, it is guys, not women, who object to snowballing. Seems some guys are squeamish about the taste of their own semen. I have no clue why this would ever bother a woman as she's already got a mouthful... As for A2M, as jilly points out, there is a risk of infection, so that's the biggest reason for it to be a no-go in my book.
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Jill, I think the most important thing in the world for you is to be right! Do some research before jumping peoples' arses. Realistically speaking any term can have multiple definitions. No, I don't need to do any research, dearie. I was referring to this term IN THE CONTEXT of both the OP's intentions (and everyone else who responded) for this thread AND the integrity of the thread in general, so as not to take it off-topic.
Jilly Bean Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 In my experience, it is guys, not women, who object to snowballing. Seems some guys are squeamish about the taste of their own semen. THIS I totally agree with! A lot of guys won't go within inches of their own cum, which is interesting (it is theirs, after all!). I think it brings up some homo-erotic horrors or something.
nicki Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 :DLike it or not, some things ARE off limits. I don't want to be with a guy who wants me to pretend I'm a little girl in bed. I don't want to be with a guy who asks me to be part of a threesome. It's not "anything goes." If a guy asked me to pee on him, I'd doubt his sanity!
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