Bells Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I went out with this woman recently, but I think even when I initially asked her out....she had no problem agreeing togoing out with me...when I did go out with her we had a pretty good time...it was her first official date with me....but somehow I got the feeling, even when we first me....that she really even liked me. That maybe she only went out with me because she had nothing else better to do? I don't know, but she claimed to have a great time when I walked her to her door. I sent her an E-card the day after, showed she picked it up...but never gotan email from her thanking me. I dunno, I'm not even sure she liked me as a friend....dunno, just the feeling I get. I am one of those guys...that won't take action or guard my heart, unless SHE indicates some kind of interest. I don't want to be the fool doing all the one-sided flirting, and her...of course "eating it up" and giggling. But it was a FIRST date...so I'm not so sure if I can judge it.
monkey00 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I wouldn't worry about it too much, it's just one date..only time will tell.
flc Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 I think your instinct is generally correct. Your mind picks up a lot of little things that you are not necessarily conscious about. Sometimes its wrong but in my case I find that if I think she is not interested she isn't. But that would not keep me from doing a follow up, I would just limit it to a single email, call whatever.
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