vince1128 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 Hey everyone, I'm in college and whenever i meet a girl and get her number i normally text her the next day with some sort of flirty friendly msg. stuff like goodmorning cutie or something like that. I do this with girls I know well, but actually like as well.. Right now i like this girl, and weve gone out for dinner and hung out but im trying to seal the deal...its half time in the game. I talk to her on the phone but what are some things to txt to let her no im interested in more then being friends without sacrificing our good friendship. ( i have classes with her, so i cant be a dick and then just forget about it, plus i actually like her) so anybody have some good ideas on things i can say?
Star Gazer Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 If you have plans to see her again, my favorite is always, "Looking forward to seeing you [insert day event here]. :)" Dunno why, but that gets me every time.
smiley23 Posted September 1, 2008 Posted September 1, 2008 have you guys kissed yet or just been hanging out?... maybe ask her does she fancy a movie some night?...
Author vince1128 Posted September 1, 2008 Author Posted September 1, 2008 have you guys kissed yet or just been hanging out?... maybe ask her does she fancy a movie some night?... no we haven't.. ive been getting cockblocked a lot. like when we ate dinner we met up with some mutual friends for ice cream after and then she left in the friends car cuz they were going back to her house. but yeah the movie sounds like a good idea.
Author vince1128 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 If you have plans to see her again, my favorite is always, "Looking forward to seeing you [insert day event here]. :)" Dunno why, but that gets me every time. i agree, ive used that before too:)
Green Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 U cant seal the deal with txting though it is important... You didn't truely get cock blocked... all you needed was one moment alone to give her a kiss... The kiss is what seals the deal its how the girl knows theres chemestry... waiting to long to try and kiss can be alot worse then kissing too soon so just go for it.
Author vince1128 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Posted September 2, 2008 i see what your saying but this is more of an friendship that i'm trying to turn into a relationship. however i feel she knows my intentions... i just wish i knew how she felt edit: should i point blank ask her at this point? what would be a better way around it?
Green Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 thats why you need to kiss her. You have to risk losing the friendship to get what u want otherwise just give up now
Green Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 tell her you want to tell her a secret and then just get close wisper something sexy/flirtatious then kiss her... if you wuss out then just do it as your dropping her off or saying goodbye
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